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by David M Willis on November 14, 2024 at 12:01 am
  • 02 – The One Where Jocelyne Returns
└ Tags: jocelyne, joe, joyce

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  1. NGPZ
    NGPZ
    November 14, 2024 at 12:02 am | #

    aaaaawwwweeee 🥲

    also LOL XD

    • Lokitsu
      Lokitsu
      November 14, 2024 at 6:29 am | #

      IKR? This is so damn cute on so many levels.

  2. Darkseide
    Darkseide
    November 14, 2024 at 12:02 am | #

    Wild

    • Clif
      Clif
      November 14, 2024 at 10:21 pm | #

      It’s all that rizz.

  3. Animedingo
    Animedingo
    November 14, 2024 at 12:03 am | #

    When your only dialect comes from red pilled conservatives

    • NGPZ
      NGPZ
      November 14, 2024 at 12:13 am | #

      right? XD

      girl has a LOT to learn, but on the other hand i can’t blame her that much?

      Indiana has a well-known reputation as a religious red-state, so much so it’s sometimes referred to as the south of the northwest

      of course a lot of her lingo comes from their ardent Christo-nationalist voter base

      • drs
        drs
        November 14, 2024 at 1:01 am | #

        Northwest?

        Did you confuse Indiana with Idaho?

        I mean, Indian _was_ part of the Northwest Ordinance, but you have to be hip on your US History to know that, it’s not northwest _now_.

        • NGPZ
          NGPZ
          November 14, 2024 at 1:03 am | #

          OOP North-EAST, yee

          XD dammit i hate typos :/

          • Psychie
            Psychie
            November 14, 2024 at 2:05 am | #

            Not even north-east, honestly, that starts at like, Pennsylvania I think, we’re mid-west. Or at least everybody I’ve talked to here refers to us as part of the mid-west, same with Ohio which is further east and Michigan which is further north. Granted, the mid-west region is so large it’s basically useless as a regional term, but still.

            • Kimi
              Kimi
              November 14, 2024 at 6:05 am | #

              My mom once referred to somewhere around Chicago (I think) as east (compared to Montana) and they were not amused. It is like referring to Seattle as the coast, or parts of the Salish Sea as the ocean. That sea may have whales and other marine life in it, but the people of Seattle absolutely do not appreciate it being called ocean. It is funny, as I think the people of Vancouver, just across the country border, are perfectly fine with it. I guess that they might be considered more “open” than Tacoma, though I would say that they are similar to Everett.
              In any case, directional terms are very specific to a region and some places are very particular about what they might be perceived as or called. I don’t know if Europe has any particularities as such, but would be interesting to know.

              • Stormies
                Stormies
                November 14, 2024 at 3:09 pm | #

                Yeah, we once got into a (friendly) argument when an american friend referred to Austria as “Central Europe”. It might look central, but it is firmly a part of Western Europe.

                • Decidedly Orthogonal
                  Decidedly Orthogonal
                  November 14, 2024 at 6:15 pm | #

                  The key being whether one is discussing geography or culture I suppose.

              • Decidedly Orthogonal
                Decidedly Orthogonal
                November 14, 2024 at 6:14 pm | #

                Wait whut?! Since when do Seattle-ites hate acknowledging that Puget Sound is part of the ocean? Like sure, Lake Washington, and Lake Union were not originally as brackishly exposed, but the Salish Sea and all parts thereof – including Puget Sound – are indisputably a part of the Pacific Ocean. (Vancouverite by birth suddenly concerned about the mental well-being of my southerly kin)

                • Kimi
                  Kimi
                  November 16, 2024 at 11:57 pm | #

                  I went to undergrad by Vancouver, so I picked up their mentality. People from Seattle consider the ocean to be on the other side of the peninsula (across the Olympic mountains). So if you are going to the coast on the Sound, they say that they are going to the Sound, not the ocean or coast. Since Vancouver didn’t have these particularities, I just always call it the ocean. Now I am just training to call it the sea since the whole thing is technically the Salish Sea (vs whatever sound or strait it fould possibly be) and sea is close enough to ocean for my purposes. I don’t think that they are denying that it is a part of it as much as that they reserve that terminology to specifically reference only places with open ocean.

        • Makkabee
          Makkabee
          November 19, 2024 at 4:33 pm | #

          It was called “the northwest” in the 19th century, and some people there haven’t grasped that it is no longer the 19th century, so…

      • eh, whatever
        eh, whatever
        November 14, 2024 at 5:32 am | #

        Nonono. Indiana is “the middle finger of the South”.

        • Kimi
          Kimi
          November 14, 2024 at 5:57 am | #

          What does that make Florida’s peninsula?

          • Michael Steamweed
            Michael Steamweed
            November 14, 2024 at 8:38 am | #

            The colon. (holds a lot of shit; needs uncomfortable colonoscopies)

            • ValdVin
              ValdVin
              November 14, 2024 at 8:44 am | #

              And needs an enema once in a while.

              • Michael Steamweed
                Michael Steamweed
                November 14, 2024 at 11:01 pm | #

                Absolutely!

          • Adept
            Adept
            November 14, 2024 at 9:01 am | #

            Florida is America’s limp penis, obviously.

            • NGPZ
              NGPZ
              November 14, 2024 at 3:48 pm | #

              *USA’s erection goes flaccid* 0-0

        • Psychie
          Psychie
          November 16, 2024 at 3:50 am | #

          Indiana is explicitly not south, we were part of the union in the civil war, and as far as I can tell that is what delineates “the south” from the other regions, membership in the former confederacy. That’s also why some particularly southerly states, like Arizona and New Mexico aren’t part of “the south” but rather “the west” or maybe “the south west”.

          • Makkabee
            Makkabee
            November 19, 2024 at 5:05 pm | #

            The definition of “the south” varies. Some people use it to mean “the old Confederacy,” 11 to 15 states (depending on how you count West Virginia, Kentucky, Missouri, and Oklahoma), and some people use it to mean “the places where slavery was legal just before the Civil War” which adds Maryland and Delaware to that collection.

            Some treat it as a cultural area rather than a political unit, using things like “the sweet tea line” as a boundary, some go by accents, some by zones of settlement.

            The “butternut counties” of southern Ohio, Indiana, and Illinois were largely settled by southerners in the 19th century while the northern parts of those states were settled mostly from the northeast, and that shaped political divides in those states for generations as “greater New England” and “the greater south” faced off.

            tldr version: “there are lots of definitions of ‘south’.”

    • Solarn
      Solarn
      November 14, 2024 at 2:52 am | #

      You are correct in this specific case, but I know so many leftist/progressive queer people and allies who use that lingo ironically, especially when referring to themselves, that Joyce saying this didn’t even register as weird for me at first.

    • PedanticJerkass
      PedanticJerkass
      November 14, 2024 at 3:17 am | #

      It’s kind of funny, because “red-pilled” is basically just their Bizarro World version of “woke.”

      Or, rather, more like “anti-woke.” Asleep, in other words. Maybe comatose.

      • Daibhid C
        Daibhid C
        November 14, 2024 at 3:15 pm | #

        What’s really funny is that they stole this term from a film directed by two trans women.

  4. DailyBrad
    DailyBrad
    November 14, 2024 at 12:04 am | #

    Panel 2 Joss, ugh, I feel you.

    • Needfuldoer
      Needfuldoer
      November 14, 2024 at 2:56 am | #

      Oh no, that doesn’t bode well for Hank’s reaction…

    • Amós Batista
      Amós Batista
      November 14, 2024 at 7:25 am | #

      Any message from is dad or mom is trigger for anxiety to mu.

    • Deanatay
      Deanatay
      November 16, 2024 at 11:47 am | #

      Panel 2 really drives home the whole ‘sister’ thing. At first I thought, “Why is Joyce answering herself sarcastically? OH YEAH…”

  5. shadowcell
    shadowcell
    November 14, 2024 at 12:04 am | #

    Dumbing of Age Book 15: I’m Woke-Pilled By the Liberal Collegiate Elites!

    now banned in 19 states and counting!

  6. Julez
    Julez
    November 14, 2024 at 12:04 am | #

    I was gonna say… Joyce this is a very recent development for you lol

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      November 14, 2024 at 12:09 am | #

      I laughed when she acknowledge the convenient timing.

    • Queezle
      Queezle
      November 14, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

      I love how honest she was about that.

    • CC
      CC
      November 14, 2024 at 4:17 am | #

      Speaking of, putting the pieces together about Ethan in 3 … 2 …

  7. Pinkie
    Pinkie
    November 14, 2024 at 12:04 am | #

    Hip is so last week, everything’s skibidi toilet now. (Kidding, it makes me happy to see this going so well.)

    • ValdVin
      ValdVin
      November 14, 2024 at 7:17 am | #

      “I dig, I’m in step
      When it was hip to be hep, I was hep
      I don’t blow, but I’m a fan”.

  8. Nono
    Nono
    November 14, 2024 at 12:04 am | #

    It’s actually funny how Joyce reacted to trans and gay people better than she did evolution.

    • Yumi
      Yumi
      November 14, 2024 at 12:14 am | #

      I kind of get it– the evolution stuff connects to the entirety of how humans and everything came to be. LGBTQ+ stuff can be seen more as about people in society, and that changes over time. (Joyce is enough of a Biblical scholar to know about various “back then” stories that aren’t how things work now.) More than that, though, it’s a more intellectual difference. Joyce can see queer people, she knows queer people, she loves queer people. And I think Joyce is ultimately guided by kindness, which shapes her reactions. Evolution, not as much direct experience, not as clear how to approach with kindness.

      All that said, yes, it is funny.

      • NGPZ
        NGPZ
        November 14, 2024 at 12:31 am | #

        in terms of how I think those specifically relate to her former Christian identity:

        Evolution is something she denied on the premise that “there’s no room for evolution in a world where nothing can die”, i.e. in her Creationist view the world that existed in Eden before The Fall of Man completely lacked ANY phenomenon of pain, harm or dying,

        Her cult’s doctrine of Original Sin hinged on the premise that humans were wholly responsible for bringing death *itself* into this world by defying God, with of course the Heavenly Father having convenient lack of accountability for neglecting to lock up fruits which could potentially poison his newborn human children.

        as for her interacting with queer people, she previously compartmentalized them as the object of evangelism, i.e. “pray the gay away” to “save us” and all that bullshit

        that said Joyce still has a long way to go in terms of breaking from not only her religious but social conservative indoctrination, but still, progress!!! ^^

      • Opus the Poet
        Opus the Poet
        November 14, 2024 at 12:39 am | #

        Joyce is more Christ-like now than when she was a fundygelical. Which nis ironicnconsidering that she’s an “atheist” now.

        • NGPZ
          NGPZ
          November 14, 2024 at 12:49 am | #

          it’s funny because historical Jesus was most likely a political activist whose niche was reforming old Jewish ideas and challenging bullshit from the Roman one percenters

          • Laura
            Laura
            November 14, 2024 at 12:57 am | #

            …Plus gay. Or at least bi.

            • NGPZ
              NGPZ
              November 14, 2024 at 1:02 am | #

              and non-binary!!!! ^^ <3

              • Laura
                Laura
                November 14, 2024 at 9:23 pm | #

                Oh, I love that! So beautiful! I’m gonna share this comic strip with my exegetical study-buddies. Just lovely. Thank you so much for turning me on to this sweet work of art and history.

                To quote Paul, it’s all about Galatians 3:28 —

                “There is neither “East” nor “West”.
                There is neither “ingroup” nor “outgroup”.
                There is neither “prisoner” nor “freeworld”.
                There is neither “convict” nor “innocent”.
                There is neither “male” nor “female”.
                For we are all one.
                We are all in this together.
                Change is all there is.”

                (OK, I’ve paraphrased the text just slightly, but that’s what that verse means to me…)

                • Laura
                  Laura
                  November 14, 2024 at 9:35 pm | #

                  Oops, no, sorry, I realized we’re not supposed to talk Bible-study stuff in this space!
                  Delete/erase…
                  Sorry ’bout that, DYW!
                  Apologies to all!

                • NGPZ
                  NGPZ
                  November 14, 2024 at 9:40 pm | #

                  hey, hey no worries, that rule is intended to address people who directly condescend to Willis and proselytize about bible stuff

                  definitely not what you’re doing here, thanks for sharing ^^

                  Stay safe, stay woke, and may peace be with you <3

                • Laura
                  Laura
                  November 14, 2024 at 9:42 pm | #

                  ✊️❤️‍🩹

          • Veronica
            Veronica
            November 14, 2024 at 2:07 am | #

            Historical Jesus worked in a toy store. Everyone knows that.

            • Needfuldoer
              Needfuldoer
              November 14, 2024 at 2:58 am | #

              He found the tables to be very hard to flip.

              • Veronica
                Veronica
                November 14, 2024 at 4:28 am | #

                +

          • Hof1991
            Hof1991
            November 14, 2024 at 9:47 am | #

            For more about historical Jesus and Rome. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/554983.God_and_Empire

            • Laura
              Laura
              November 14, 2024 at 9:26 pm | #

              Thank you for the tip!

        • ian livs
          ian livs
          November 14, 2024 at 1:39 am | #

          May I ask why the scare quotes?

        • Dana W
          Dana W
          November 14, 2024 at 8:20 am | #

          Yes atheists EXIST. No quotes required.

      • BorkBorkBork
        BorkBorkBork
        November 14, 2024 at 1:53 am | #

        The thing is, it doesn’t even NEED to be “enlightened athiest imagining a socialist historical Jesus.” It’s just the evangelicals have such a hyper-fixation on being counter culture, and they boxed themselves into a situation by defending shit that the Bible never focused on.

        How important is it to one’s faith that you believe the world is like ~6000ish years old? Not at all, according to the Bible, and if cornered, no one would say, “You’re saved by being repentant of your sins and accepting Christ as Lord AND renouncing evolution and literally everything queer.” Because THAT would be adding to the Bible, something they tell you they do not do.

        But then you listen to blokes like Ken Ham at Answers in Genesis, and suddenly you’re told, wait a second, ACKSHUALLY, it’s incredibly important that you believe in a young Earth; it’s CRITICALLY important, if you don’t believe this it starts tearing down the entire Bible, because all of it has a foundation in Genesis. They *literally* have this presentation where they go through the Bible and say, “Well, if Genesis isn’t literal, then this falls apart, and this falls apart, and this falls apart…” and demand all the kiddos don’t even *think* about any other interpretation. Which honestly is basically making a pull tab around Christianity labeled “Young Earth,” so that kids plop out even easier as atheists when they leave home.

        If C.S. Lewis’ Screwtape, or for that matter Sir Terry Pratchett’s Crowley were real people, I believe they’d get a commendation for Answers in Genesis.

        So yeah. Joyce balked at evolution because it was taught to her to be *the thing* that undid her religion. Whereas other aspects – gender, sexual orientation – are small portions of the larger faith, and can be tackled without shaking the whole.

        • Dave the Inverted
          Dave the Inverted
          November 14, 2024 at 4:48 am | #

          I spent about 30 years dealing with the cognitive dissonance between growing up believing YEC was Essential Core Doctrine and my gradual realization that the evidence *was* there and evolution *was* real. (And by “dealing with” I mean “actively not thinking about.”) I didn’t go atheist, but to suggest that Christ was present in my life on a daily basis would be profoundly not true.

    • Devin
      Devin
      November 14, 2024 at 1:26 pm | #

      The fact that Becky was her best friend probably helped that one along a lot. She couldn’t reconcile Becky being considered evil.

  9. Sirksome
    Sirksome
    November 14, 2024 at 12:05 am | #

    Remember when Joyce was transvestigating Dorothy for a secret weenis? That was like 2 days ago.

  10. NGPZ
    NGPZ
    November 14, 2024 at 12:05 am | #

    hey Joyce, HOT TIP:

    “elites” used in that context is a right-wing dog whistle used to refer to everything they hate bout the left

    it also means “Jews” 👀

    same with other conservative media machine verbal ammunition including, but not limited to:
    – “globalists”
    – “postmodernists”
    – “cultural marxists”
    – “funded by George Soros”

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      November 14, 2024 at 12:34 am | #

      Honestly, any time conservatives fixate on a given word over and over I just assume that it’s their new codeword for “Jews.” Pretty much never fails, as a rule of thumb.

      • NGPZ
        NGPZ
        November 14, 2024 at 12:43 am | #

        pretty much

        also if you see anyone on the internet put a dog whistle like that into triple parenthesis, as in

        “(((term)))”

        that’s a surefire sign you found a card-carrying white supremacist

        • eh, whatever
          eh, whatever
          November 14, 2024 at 5:43 am | #

          I mean, by now it’s a much surer sign of someone pointing out other people’s antisemitism… context is needed.

          • NGPZ
            NGPZ
            November 14, 2024 at 1:39 pm | #

            Context was literally given above, also my trans friend in Iowa has to put up with actual nazi shitheads like this both IRL and in discord servers she’s in 👀

      • Taffy
        Taffy
        November 14, 2024 at 1:18 am | #

        It’s weird they have so many stupid codewords for Jews, because they’ll also just outright call people Jewish as an attempted insult.

        • Throwatron
          Throwatron
          November 14, 2024 at 1:34 am | #

          they gotta have a slur for every occasion.

          • Taffy
            Taffy
            November 14, 2024 at 1:47 am | #

            They should be bullied into submission at every opportunity. Like, not even just vicious mockery, they need to be physically humiliated. Give bigots wedgies. Duct tape them to walls. Lock them in tight spaces and leave them there for a while. Knock their lunch out of their hands. Slap their phones out of their hands while they’re talking to a family member and then pick the phone up and pretend they just got hit by a car.

            • NGPZ
              NGPZ
              November 14, 2024 at 1:50 am | #

              make all restrooms all-gender,

              and if they don’t feel “””comfortable””” sharing it with us they can use the bushes

              or better yet piss themselves in public XD

              • Needfuldoer
                Needfuldoer
                November 14, 2024 at 3:02 am | #

                Don’t tell them, but there’s an all-gender bathroom in their house right now! :O

                • Michael Steamweed
                  Michael Steamweed
                  November 14, 2024 at 8:46 am | #

                  *gasps in shock
                  *clutches pearls
                  *wonders where the hell these pearls came from

                • Taffy
                  Taffy
                  November 14, 2024 at 9:00 am | #

                  I’ve occasionally wondered why it’s pearls, specifically. What is it about being shocked that makes people think about grabbing a bunch of pearls?

                • Michael Steamweed
                  Michael Steamweed
                  November 14, 2024 at 2:36 pm | #

                  Southern “Belle” type women-folks early 1900s? All dolled up in society with their pearl necklaces, and expressing shock at any moral “transgression”. Dunno. I first saw the phrase in the 90s.

                • thejeff
                  thejeff
                  November 14, 2024 at 7:45 pm | #

                  Seems to have come from “In Living Color” in the early 90s.

            • superglucose
              superglucose
              November 14, 2024 at 11:56 am | #

              “We’ve had to say a lot of stuff
              we thought was fucking obvious
              like, “Yes, It’s ok to punch Nazis!””

              • Taffy
                Taffy
                November 14, 2024 at 1:59 pm | #

                I thought we were all supposed to be flag-waving patriots, but all of a sudden we’re supposed to feel guilty beating the shit out of Nazis and everyone who supports their ideology? Nah, they lost the fuckin’ war like the two-bit chumps they are, and they can keep getting pounded into the dirt like the stakes their heads belong on.

    • Loki
      Loki
      November 14, 2024 at 12:37 am | #

      I feel it’s not that she is repeating it in earnest, but instead she is mocking that very thing?

      Like, in Germany, some right-wing politician at some point came up with the expression “links-grün versiffte Gutmenschen” – roughly “left-green grime goody two-shoes”, much to the amusement of said population because it is so over the top, and now people have reclaimed it and use it for themselves/to mock said politician.

      • Loki
        Loki
        November 14, 2024 at 12:39 am | #

        That said, you are probably right that she is not at all aware of the meaning of “elites” in particular.

        • thejeff
          thejeff
          November 14, 2024 at 7:53 am | #

          Yeah, she probably doesn’t make the Jewish connection, but she’s definitely using it ironically.

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        November 14, 2024 at 8:47 am | #

        That sounds a lot like an American conservative saying something like “I’m rubber, and you’re glue”.

    • Masumi
      Masumi
      November 14, 2024 at 2:42 am | #

      Tbf, Ethan and Dotty *did* have a pretty positive effect on this development, so teeeechnically…

      • Morleuca
        Morleuca
        November 14, 2024 at 12:13 pm | #

        as has Joe

    • yak
      yak
      November 14, 2024 at 5:47 am | #

      Soros’s checks keep bouncing and the Clintons are irrelevant now. Who’s the hip new dog whistle that will pay me those sweet sweet woke bux?

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        November 14, 2024 at 8:47 am | #

        Wait, you’ve been paid? Howinhell do I get in on that?

        • yak
          yak
          November 14, 2024 at 5:56 pm | #

          not in months I haven’t! It’s no wonder the Democrats lost, they don’t pay their antifa super soldiers.

    • Johan
      Johan
      November 14, 2024 at 1:16 pm | #

      I think that’s why she’s saying that. Basically like I’m everything our mom and church said is bad.

    • TulipKitten
      TulipKitten
      November 14, 2024 at 3:12 pm | #

      Honestly, she’s probably being facetious and using her mom’s language. It sounds *exactly* like what her mother would say.

      • TulipKitten
        TulipKitten
        November 14, 2024 at 3:14 pm | #

        TIL I can use HTML tags. I’ve been using reddit tagging for emphasis. EMPHASIS!

  11. Proto_Eevee
    Proto_Eevee
    November 14, 2024 at 12:07 am | #

    Joyce has the rizz sticks

  12. Straximus
    Straximus
    November 14, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

    I love this storyline *so* much. ♥

    • Bryy
      Bryy
      November 14, 2024 at 12:40 am | #

      It’s very possible that it could span all 4 years.

  13. MordWa
    MordWa
    November 14, 2024 at 12:14 am | #

    The real question:

    Where is the mysterious Jordan Brown?

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      November 14, 2024 at 12:43 am | #

      He betrayed the Irregular Hunters and hid himself inside a volcano.

      • Radiance
        Radiance
        November 14, 2024 at 3:18 am | #

        What a maverick!

    • BorkBorkBork
      BorkBorkBork
      November 14, 2024 at 2:00 am | #

      Mom didn’t approve of him, but at least she acknowledges him, and Dad acknowledged him as “a good kid.” Whatever is dividing them is out, known, and begrudgingly accepted. So I dunno, maybe he voted Democrat once, or attends a Lutheran church, or something otherwise scandalous.

      • Needfuldoer
        Needfuldoer
        November 14, 2024 at 3:07 am | #

        I headcanon-ed that he went through Joyce’s atheist awakening in high school, bolted the day he turned 18, and hasn’t looked back. Maybe keeping a minimal thread of contact with Jocelyne along the way.

        Maybe someday he’ll appear in the strip after hearing about the divorce. Maybe.

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        November 14, 2024 at 8:51 am | #

        I barely know of him, but in that context, I’m thinking he’s a Christ-centered fundamentalist missionary. That is, he emphasizes acceptance, love, and peace (which Hank can respect), and rejects Carol’s attempts at control (which Carol can never accept).

    • Hof1991
      Hof1991
      November 14, 2024 at 9:50 am | #

      Joss knows. Maybe she will tell us. Mom and dad won’t.

      • MordWa
        MordWa
        November 14, 2024 at 11:05 pm | #

        In my head cannon, he’s now a widowed physician and scientist who is presumed dead, travelling across the United States under assumed names and finding himself in positions where he helps others in need despite his terrible secret: Following an accident that altered his cells, in times of extreme anger or stress, he transforms into a huge, savage, incredibly strong humanoid.

        In his travels, Jordan earns money by working temporary jobs while searching for a way to either control or cure his condition…

        *cue piano tinkling*

  14. mindbleach
    mindbleach
    November 14, 2024 at 12:14 am | #

    Last week she ‘didn’t know any transgenders,’ this week she’s up to two. At this rate, it’ll be her whole clique by midterms!

    May wanna expedite any further penis behavior with Joe… sephine. Nailed it.

    • Loki
      Loki
      November 14, 2024 at 12:38 am | #

      Joe can just become Jocelyn, for maximum confusion.

    • Needfuldoer
      Needfuldoer
      November 14, 2024 at 3:10 am | #

      It’s too early to tell whether this effect is additive (she meets one more person per day), or exponential.

      • mindbleach
        mindbleach
        November 14, 2024 at 3:18 am | #

        She doesn’t know many people! Either trend is not looking great vis-a-vis Joe’s penis.

        Time is of the essence, Joyce. Chop chop.

        … wow, that was poor phrasing.

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        November 14, 2024 at 8:52 am | #

        It’s going to go fibonacci.

    • superglucose
      superglucose
      November 14, 2024 at 12:00 pm | #

      plenty of trans women have functional penises they enjoy using! Joesephine could be one of them!

      • mindbleach
        mindbleach
        November 14, 2024 at 1:02 pm | #

        I know, I know, I just want these kids to hurry up and swap tartar sauce. Willis’s year-long buffer only covers the week he drew them in.

    • RedCat
      RedCat
      November 20, 2024 at 3:28 pm | #

      No, she also knows Booster and maybe even Malaya.

  15. Qube
    Qube
    November 14, 2024 at 12:16 am | #

    I’m damn near 40 and that was still painful

  16. Shade
    Shade
    November 14, 2024 at 12:20 am | #

    You can tell she’s woke by how wide and open her eyes are.

  17. RassilonTDavros
    RassilonTDavros
    November 14, 2024 at 12:37 am | #

    I mean anytime someone uses “woke” as an insult, I take it to mean they’re asleep at the wheel. I mean what the fuck else do they expect a sane person to take away from that?

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      November 14, 2024 at 12:41 am | #

      (This was meant to be a reply to Shade’s comment above).

    • Opus the Poet
      Opus the Poet
      November 14, 2024 at 12:50 am | #

      +1!

    • Taffy
      Taffy
      November 14, 2024 at 1:08 am | #

      They sound like brain damaged dogs. “Woke! Woke! Woke!” Like shut up already, the squirrel ran by three fucking hours ago and isn’t coming back.

      • NGPZ
        NGPZ
        November 14, 2024 at 1:30 am | #

        “rainbows!?!??!?! the sky’s gone WOKE WOKE WOKE!!! BOYCOTT AIR!!! BOYCOTT REFRACTION!!! WOKE WOKE!!!””

        “a black female protagonist in a cartoon? MUST make this problem SOMEhow, can’t FIGHT whitebred racist INSTINCT WOKE WOKE WOOOOOAAAAAHHAAAAH”

        here i am i be like

        are these fuckers for REALS? XD

        • Taffy
          Taffy
          November 14, 2024 at 1:41 am | #

          If they’re gonna get so incredibly worked up all the time, they could at least do us all a favor and have heart attacks from the stress.

          • Nymph
            Nymph
            November 14, 2024 at 7:36 am | #

            Co-signed. If they’re going to die mad about it, could they hurry that up a bit?

            • Opus the Poet
              Opus the Poet
              November 14, 2024 at 8:34 pm | #

              +1!

        • Michael Steamweed
          Michael Steamweed
          November 14, 2024 at 8:53 am | #

          In all moroseness, I regret to inform you that, yes, they are for real. They are definitely in earnest. 🙁

          • NGPZ
            NGPZ
            November 14, 2024 at 4:29 pm | #

            it’s sad, really, that they’ve just up and made this their whole personality

            they like IRL Jerry Smith:

            young adult males who’ve gotten more than the blunt end of late capitalism, who have gotten so desperate for some niche, for some way of “earning respect”, for some way of feeling like a WINNER,

            … that they’ve settled on this way of doing so which comes at a human cost

    • MordWa
      MordWa
      November 14, 2024 at 1:34 am | #

      I’m old enough to still use ‘bleeding heart liberal’. Unironically (yeah, come at me).

      Functionally the same, but seems more antique, small batch & refined.

      • Mark
        Mark
        November 14, 2024 at 7:28 am | #

        Oh, yeah, I remember that one. These days I interpret it as people who are all passion and no strategy, of which there are many in both tails of the population.

  18. staszu13
    staszu13
    November 14, 2024 at 12:37 am | #

    Please, Joyce, no more fundy/right winger jargon

    • Dana W
      Dana W
      November 14, 2024 at 1:05 am | #

      It takes time to get out of the mindset. I’ve been out of the conservaloop for more than 20 years and I still slip up now and again.

  19. DJTsurugi
    DJTsurugi
    November 14, 2024 at 12:40 am | #

    I cringed at “the transes” but again, at least Joyce is trying, too hard perhaps but she’s trying. also Jocelyne’s outfit is really cute, wish I could wear something like that, but I got them big shoulders. ~<3

    • Queen Anthai
      Queen Anthai
      November 14, 2024 at 12:59 am | #

      The bigger the shoulders, the more pretty floral print you can show off, though.

    • Dana W
      Dana W
      November 14, 2024 at 1:06 am | #

      Tell me about it, if it wasn’t for Torrid I’d be doomed to menswear.

      • Morleuca
        Morleuca
        November 14, 2024 at 12:38 pm | #

        the shoes are a lifesaver

        • Dana W
          Dana W
          November 14, 2024 at 1:46 pm | #

          For shoes even they can’t help me. :/

    • Veronica
      Veronica
      November 14, 2024 at 2:10 am | #

      I am trans and I will never stop referring to us as the transes. It’s just incredibly funny

      • mindbleach
        mindbleach
        November 14, 2024 at 3:24 am | #

        Contrapoints ruined me by saying “a tran.” It’s too funny not to.

        • Veronica
          Veronica
          November 14, 2024 at 4:30 am | #

          Oh *that’s* where I got referring to myself as a tran from. Of course!

        • Nymph
          Nymph
          November 14, 2024 at 7:38 am | #

          omg YES, I also can’t hear the word burgeoning anymore without her voice in my head lol

        • DJTsurugi
          DJTsurugi
          November 14, 2024 at 11:54 am | #

          great, and now I’m thinking about Dr. Tran. ~<3

          • Taffy
            Taffy
            November 14, 2024 at 1:55 pm | #

            Are there no windows in your house?

      • Dday
        Dday
        November 14, 2024 at 10:39 am | #

        Currently picturing a 1950s style sitcom called “The Transes”

        • BorkBorkBork
          BorkBorkBork
          November 14, 2024 at 2:05 pm | #

          Funny, I was picturing some sort of 90s sitcom called “Hip With the Transes.”

          Main character Will “Hip” Hippson, leaves his mom in West Philadelphia after he gets beat up by a gang, and flies out West to live with his aunt and uncle in Portland, Phil and Vivian Trans. Phil and Vivian are, coincidentally, trans, and their three children are pan, demi, and ace. Hijinks ensue as crazy, wacky, straight cis white male Hip tries to fit in with his more straight-laced, respectable, queer family.

          Oh, and Nathan Lane is the butler. Not as any character. Just Nathan Lane.

          • mindbleach
            mindbleach
            November 14, 2024 at 2:56 pm | #

            > Oh, and Nathan Lane is the butler. Not as any character. Just Nathan Lane.

            Uncle Phil: “That’s how fucking rich we are, and we STILL don’t vote Republican.”

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      November 14, 2024 at 8:57 am | #

      The cises, the gayses, the hetses, the homos, the transes. Joyce has all the latest terms. And to keep up, she only needs to ask Ethan, because he’s an expert on all this stuff.

    • superglucose
      superglucose
      November 14, 2024 at 12:02 pm | #

      “the transes” is something me and my friends have called ourselves and definitely comes off as “who are you” when Joyce says it XD

    • RedCat
      RedCat
      November 20, 2024 at 3:30 pm | #

      I’m afab and I got huge shoulders, don’t let it stop you :>
      Like, not just broad, I’m also a fat person, there’s a lot of stuff that I’m “not supposed to wear”, but I wear what I like and feel comfortable in.

      Also broad shoulders are attractive imo anyway

  20. Throwatron
    Throwatron
    November 14, 2024 at 1:33 am | #

    with the power of mild self-awareness i believe joyce can achieve anything

  21. ian livs
    ian livs
    November 14, 2024 at 1:42 am | #

    Joyce has so much negative rizz that it circles back around into positive rizz (affectionate)

  22. AK
    AK
    November 14, 2024 at 1:49 am | #

    I ADORE the last panel.

  23. Shadow Dreamer
    Shadow Dreamer
    November 14, 2024 at 1:54 am | #

    nope dangit crying again

    she gets to have a DRESS, they MATCH–

  24. Amelie Wikström
    Amelie Wikström
    November 14, 2024 at 1:59 am | #

    It seems they both recognize the problem where news from their family is always bad, and both have the solution of not responding to calls or messages until it blows up in their face. Maybe the happy news can break the pattern, or maybe they can just start communicating more.

    • anon
      anon
      November 14, 2024 at 2:31 am | #

      hank needs to show up and take them to (insert name for monkey master ver of disneyland) as a family trip 8D;

      • Amelie Wikström
        Amelie Wikström
        November 14, 2024 at 8:55 am | #

        Reforming the family without Carol or John would be great for them. (Maybe Jordan too except they have no way to get in touch with him.) They can be and/or have The Brown Reformist Party.

  25. Bash
    Bash
    November 14, 2024 at 2:09 am | #

    This continues to be SO CUTE.

  26. Acher4
    Acher4
    November 14, 2024 at 2:13 am | #

    “You came at a good time”

    Overstatement of the year. 😛

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      November 14, 2024 at 8:59 am | #

      Yeah, definitely. Last semester would have been, well, dangerous.

  27. GUIGUI
    GUIGUI
    November 14, 2024 at 2:31 am | #

    Yesterday? I’d say it at least date since Becky came out to her.

    • superglucose
      superglucose
      November 14, 2024 at 12:02 pm | #

      good lord if she reacted to Jocelyne like she did to Carla she wouldn’t have a sister anymore

  28. Suet
    Suet
    November 14, 2024 at 2:38 am | #

    “Run off and tell mom” Not much anymore after the fallout.

    Two. Two straight days of wanting to get Willis for the alt-text. Who even says on fleek and lit (much less marvy) on the reg these days?

    • Needfuldoer
      Needfuldoer
      November 14, 2024 at 3:13 am | #

      Well, August/September Joyce probably would have gone running to Carol. She’s had a lot of character growth since then.

      I used to be “with it”, then they changed what “it” was! Now what I’m with isn’t “it” and what is “it” seems weird and scary to me! This will happen to you!

      • temporaryobsessor
        temporaryobsessor
        November 14, 2024 at 5:12 am | #

        Yea, she’s since seen how her mom treats people who are different but not hurting anyone.

  29. Fuzzy
    Fuzzy
    November 14, 2024 at 3:00 am | #

    Joyce says she’s only been okay with trans people since yesterday, but she shifted her entire worldview on a dime when Becky came out to her. Maybe she would’ve accidentally said things she shouldn’t if this conversation happened sooner, but Joyce would have accepted Jocelyne as her sister at any point. (Or at least after moving out of her parents’ house, but imo, even before then.)

    • temporaryobsessor
      temporaryobsessor
      November 14, 2024 at 5:07 am | #

      Yea, she might have not said the right things but she wouldn’t have been a jerk about it. Just might have been more cringy and required more instructions.

    • Dark_Panda
      Dark_Panda
      November 14, 2024 at 10:22 am | #

      I don’t think her ENTIRE worldview was shifted when Becky came out to her. She loves Becky and so she accepted her as a lesbian. But then when Joyce rejected her fundamentalism, she was angry and confused with Becky for not doing the same. So (as someone, Sarah I think, pointed out to her) she was still using her old fundamentalist attitudes, but just pointed in the opposite direction.

      Joyce is too loving to remain narrow-minded for long, though.

  30. IntangibleMatter
    IntangibleMatter
    November 14, 2024 at 3:25 am | #

    It would seem that Joyce has been browsing just a bit of 4chan, and not the same parts that Jocelyne might’ve been stuck on at some point

    • superglucose
      superglucose
      November 14, 2024 at 12:04 pm | #

      may the “trans women are channers” trope die in my lifetime

  31. Rolf of Many Doors
    Rolf of Many Doors
    November 14, 2024 at 3:26 am | #

    In defense of the alt-text, Joyce does indeed have rizz – not too long ago she did in fact get some (mac n’ cheese) not too long ago

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      November 14, 2024 at 9:00 am | #

      She did have some rizz on her hand, yes. (much to Sarah’s horror) 😀

  32. bwooom
    bwooom
    November 14, 2024 at 3:42 am | #

    These comments are sort of confusing. Like, it’s pretty obvious that Joyce was just telling a joke, right? To make fun of ridiculous conservative terminology? You see that kind of stuff all the time.

    • dalniente
      dalniente
      November 14, 2024 at 5:23 am | #

      Extremely obvious to me as well, yeah.

    • Bruno
      Bruno
      November 14, 2024 at 5:23 am | #

      It is really annoying but I’ll give Joyce a pass ‘cus she’s new.

      • thejeff
        thejeff
        November 14, 2024 at 8:18 am | #

        She’s mocking the upbringing she shared with her sister. In that context, I’m really not sure what’s supposed to be wrong with it.

    • Nymph
      Nymph
      November 14, 2024 at 7:40 am | #

      Some people really struggle to identify jokes in text form. This happens in the comments section of this comic all the time, people see a joke and start extrapolating whole personality defects from a punchline.

      • Needfuldoer
        Needfuldoer
        November 14, 2024 at 8:01 am | #

        What do you mean? Conveying sarcasm without intonation and a single frame of expression is easy.

  33. Bruno
    Bruno
    November 14, 2024 at 5:22 am | #

    Finally! Someone who transes all the way.

    • Nymph
      Nymph
      November 14, 2024 at 7:30 am | #

      Carla also “transes all the way” which I’m hearing to the tune of Jingle Bells now.

      • Sere
        Sere
        November 14, 2024 at 8:12 am | #

        … I will not be able to unregister that when I hear the song now. Here’s hoping i don’t maniacally giggle in stores.

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        November 14, 2024 at 9:05 am | #

        Transes bells, Transes bells
        Transes all the way

        (needs more development)

        • Taffy
          Taffy
          November 14, 2024 at 11:44 am | #

          “Gender bells” was right there.

          • Michael Steamweed
            Michael Steamweed
            November 14, 2024 at 2:32 pm | #

            Well, yeah, but not all genders do the transes thing. Some are all about the cises thing. (cising? cisering?)

            • Taffy
              Taffy
              November 14, 2024 at 2:39 pm | #

              I think the legal term is “cissoring”.

              • Michael Steamweed
                Michael Steamweed
                November 14, 2024 at 11:03 pm | #

                *takes notes

    • Jeremiah
      Jeremiah
      November 14, 2024 at 7:26 pm | #

      That is a pretty weird thing to say.

  34. darkoneko
    darkoneko
    November 14, 2024 at 7:14 am | #

    Joyce for the lot of heavens what kid sland are you using now

  35. Amós Batista
    Amós Batista
    November 14, 2024 at 7:21 am | #

    I don’t know if it’s ok for you or not, but passing long time without talking to your siblings is really uncanny to me.

    • Nymph
      Nymph
      November 14, 2024 at 7:29 am | #

      Yeah I talk to most of my siblings every few days at maximum (sometimes daily), but I’m non-white so I think there’s a cultural divide there.

      • Hazel
        Hazel
        November 14, 2024 at 8:20 am | #

        Depends I suppose. I text my sister multiple times most days but my brother who is over a decade older than me I text like a couple times a year, maybe a phone call around Christmas or on one of our birthdays. He is notorious for being bad at staying in touch though. One time he didn’t get in contact for ages after a massive storm (pre mobile phones being the norm) and our Dad got worried and traveled over 3000km (2000 miles) there and back to see if he was alive. He found him walking on the beach near his place perfectly fine. Dad was relieved. And pissed.

      • Yumi
        Yumi
        November 14, 2024 at 12:56 pm | #

        I barely talk to my siblings outside of family gatherings, but they’re my half-siblings and literally decades older than me. They’re actually close in age and grew up together, and I think they keep in regular contact.

        For my parents, my dad talks to his siblings regularly (his sisters almost daily, though he’d prefer it was a bit less– one sister has been needing a lot of support). My mom talks to her siblings much less, more “as needed.” Interestingly, because I due agree with your cultural divide suspicions in general, my dad’s side is very white, and my mom’s side isn’t as white.

        For Joyce and not communicating with her siblings, I do see how it makes sense– Jordan dropped off her radar completely before the start of the strip; John was doing missionary stuff in India (and was a tool), so that probably was a point where communication dropped off. Then between Joyce and Jocelyne, I think it’s likely that Jocelyne was the one who drew back on contact– she was in college starting when Joyce was maybe 12 or 13, and as she was coming into her identity, she needed to pull away from her family… which included her still-living-with-the-folks, still-very-religious little sister.

        I hope now that they’ll be in more regular contact and grow closer.

      • Jeremiah
        Jeremiah
        November 14, 2024 at 7:25 pm | #

        I mean if you don’t really with them anymore and you are all adults with jobs or school and stuff I think it’s understandable to lose.contact for a bit. Doesn’t mean you don’t care, you just have your own life to live (thought I still live with my parents and siblings so I can’t really say it for sure I guess)

  36. FinalGwen
    FinalGwen
    November 14, 2024 at 7:40 am | #

    While this is a very new development for Joyce, I do like to hope if she’d been told earlier she would have made some very quick adjustments in her head in the same way she did for Becky.

  37. Michael Steamweed
    Michael Steamweed
    November 14, 2024 at 8:34 am | #

    I’m getting all the latest slang from Joyce! This is great! I mean, this is lit!

    (aww yiss i’m so riz now)

    • Morleuca
      Morleuca
      November 14, 2024 at 3:35 pm | #

      you definitely aren’t leaking aura

  38. Adept
    Adept
    November 14, 2024 at 8:59 am | #

    This was rather perfect 😀

    Thanks for the smile. I needed that. The punchline in was great.

  39. Da Boy
    Da Boy
    November 14, 2024 at 9:23 am | #

    Thanks Carla!

  40. thumb
    thumb
    November 14, 2024 at 10:23 am | #

    Oh, Willis. I hate to tell you this, but I think Joyce is too young to be using these terms even ironically. That’s what I was doing at her age IN EARLY 2000!!!
    That said, I don’t know what terms the young folk are using ironically these days, but I’d be sad if it was the same ones.

    • a/snow/mous/e
      a/snow/mous/e
      November 14, 2024 at 12:54 pm | #

      maybe she’s imitating her mom

      • a/snow/mous/e
        a/snow/mous/e
        November 14, 2024 at 12:54 pm | #

        (or FOX News or something)

  41. Mr. Random
    Mr. Random
    November 14, 2024 at 10:40 am | #

    Yeah, this whole arc was Willis getting Joyce ready so she didn’t wreck her relationship with her sister.

    • Mr. Random
      Mr. Random
      November 14, 2024 at 10:42 am | #

      Or… didn’t have a negative initial reaction that would have vilified Joyce in the eyes of the audience while she’s still growing because it’s kind of hard to figure out how she would have tracked Joycelynn down if things went badly the first time.

      • BorkBorkBork
        BorkBorkBork
        November 14, 2024 at 4:20 pm | #

        Second, I think.

        In real life, we understand that people change and grow over time, and that a fumbled first impression is not necessarily a representation of who they are (or at least, we should). In a story, where everything is scene-based and focused on building conflict, rising tension, climax, resolution, with lean plots where everything that happens, happens for a reason. If Joyce had not accepted her sister right away, it *would not matter* to the audience if it took her a few hours, or a few days, or more to accept that her sibling was Jocelyn, and not who she knew her as prior. She would have spent literal weeks or months as an unsympathetic villain who espoused every hurtful rejection that the audience had felt.

        There’s a reason that after Becky kissed Joyce, she froze, and didn’t say anything other than that she didn’t feel the same way, and then *Sarah* gets angry, and the first thing that Joyce does is say, “Hurt ME?!” in defense of Becky. Yes, it’s because she’s a loyal friend who puts kindness first – but she’s neck-deep in fundie doctrine at that point. That’s her *entire character*. And to show her not even struggling with it past the initial shock; even giving a little speech to Becky about how she accepted her and she wasn’t wrong, and not until the next day does she even start looking up alternate interpretations of the scripture she has memorized – it kind of HAD to be that way, because any sort of struggle, or denial, or mention of scripture, even if just a foible in the moment, wouldn’t have been acceptable.

        If Joyce and Jocelyn were real people, and at first Joyce is having a hard time understanding and says something obtuse or offensive, and asks for some space, and *later that day* Joyce comes back to her and fully apologizes and accepts her, IRL Joyce and Jocelyn’s relationship is solid because Jocelyn understands her sister is human and this is a jump, considering where they come from. But Comic Strip Joyce wouldn’t recover from that. As the arguable MC of DoA, she’d have hurt and angered WAY too many people, too personally, to just forgive and forget.

        • Taffy
          Taffy
          November 14, 2024 at 6:37 pm | #

          Yeah, this audience could definitely stand to chill out and not take every imperfection as a personal affront.

          • BorkBorkBork
            BorkBorkBork
            November 15, 2024 at 1:22 am | #

            I think it’s less the audience, and more the medium. The story crawls compared to all other media – you spend a full day on like five seconds of interaction – so we dwell on it for much longer. And in fiction – *good* fiction, at least – there’s almost no unimportant scenes. Joyce and Jocelyn, or Joyce and Becky, that confrontation is a climax, and the resolution of it matters a great deal in fiction. If the climax goes poorly, the anticlimax MUST be far greater to offset the initial foible. There’s no, “Actually, sis, I’m sorry, I love you, let’s start over.”

            That’s what happened when the Browns met the Keeners, after all – there HAD to be that confrontation at the fountain, where Joyce stands up to her parents and throws their words back at them, to make a satisfying story. If that accidental confrontation had never happened, even if Joyce comes to Dorothy right after and says “I’m sorry, Dorothy, my family was jerks but I love you, even though you’re going to hell” (because remember, she still talked like that back then) she’s still an asshole who just let her parents insult her friend.

            Walky and Lucy demonstrate the above pretty good, actually. Walky didn’t initially stand up for Lucy, because they both agreed they wanted to make a good impression despite knowing the situation. It then blows up later. And then Walky stands up to his parents, and if that was IRL it would have been HUGE, but in a comic strip it is absolutely anticlimactic, and we’re left still thinking less of Walky.

            It’s just the craft of storytelling. Because this was a huge pivotal climax that the story has been building to for over a decade, it HAD to go well, or else it would signal there truly was something wrong with Joyce and she hadn’t grown as much as we all thought.

        • Jeremiah
          Jeremiah
          November 14, 2024 at 7:22 pm | #

          I don’t really like how you phrase this like it is a definite thing.

          • Mr. Random
            Mr. Random
            November 14, 2024 at 8:09 pm | #

            Can’t tell if this is an object lesson or intentionally hilarious.

    • Felian
      Felian
      November 15, 2024 at 12:16 pm | #

      which means, again, that Carla is everyone’s acceptable losses. It’s only important that Joyce is decent to the most important trans person in her life [that ranking would hurt Carla more than that she’s been getting cringe comments from Joyce]

  42. Joe Moose
    Joe Moose
    November 14, 2024 at 10:43 am | #

    I’m going to use that alt text in a future time, either IRL or in writing. Fair warning 😉

  43. TheFlamingonator
    TheFlamingonator
    November 14, 2024 at 12:16 pm | #

    The Woke-pill can be tough for some to swallow (especially for Joyce)

  44. Jdorr
    Jdorr
    November 14, 2024 at 12:54 pm | #

    Good on Joyce on her honesty admitting that her acceptance is an admittedly recent event

  45. RickZarber
    RickZarber
    November 14, 2024 at 12:56 pm | #

    I love that Joe is carrying Jocelyne’s coat for her, that’s a nice touch.

    • Jdorr
      Jdorr
      November 15, 2024 at 1:03 pm | #

      Oh he is. Nice

  46. Astariel
    Astariel
    November 14, 2024 at 1:50 pm | #

    I think Joyce is being a bit too hard on herself here. She pushed back against transphobia from her mom and from Mary before she even knew that she knew any trans people. She supported Becky even when she was still deep in right-wing religious mode. If Jocylene has come out to her earlier, she would have been a lot more awkward and probably wound up swallowing her foot, but she would have had her heart in the right place.

    • Jdorr
      Jdorr
      November 15, 2024 at 1:05 pm | #

      Fair point

  47. TulipKitten
    TulipKitten
    November 14, 2024 at 3:18 pm | #
    • TulipKitten
      TulipKitten
      November 14, 2024 at 3:18 pm | #

      Aww dang it, no images.

  48. Needfuldoer
    Needfuldoer
    November 14, 2024 at 4:08 pm | #

    Sluggo Joyce is lit.

  49. Josh Spicer
    Josh Spicer
    November 14, 2024 at 4:43 pm | #

    I hate that she used those words in that order to form a complete sentence, but also, I can’t think of any other way that properly conveys the current situation that Joyce is in/has gone through.

  50. Kazuma Taichi
    Kazuma Taichi
    November 14, 2024 at 5:58 pm | #

    speaking of pills, I just started taking the blue pill yesterday

    • Kazuma Taichi
      Kazuma Taichi
      November 14, 2024 at 6:00 pm | #

      makes me sad that they changed the color since the movie came out

      • Serendipity
        Serendipity
        November 14, 2024 at 6:18 pm | #

        Welcome to the real world.

      • Dana W
        Dana W
        November 14, 2024 at 10:10 pm | #

        Man I’m old, when I started it was the purple pills.

  51. Zamperla
    Zamperla
    November 14, 2024 at 8:34 pm | #

    yeah I do appreciate how much of a leap of faith Joycelyn is taking to come out to Joyce at all. Not because Joyce aint a loving sister and (trying to be) a good person. Its just always a risk, and let alone with your lil sister from your incredibly evangelical family.

  52. Mo
    Mo
    November 15, 2024 at 6:40 pm | #

    rizzler baddie serving conga, no cap

    • gnomedeplume
      gnomedeplume
      November 17, 2024 at 3:15 am | #

      fr fr

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