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Crying

by David M Willis on January 16, 2022 at 12:01 am
  • 02 – I'll Leave You A Phantom
└ Tags: amber

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  1. Ana Chronistic
    Ana Chronistic
    January 16, 2022 at 12:05 am | #

    oh no the F – E – E – L – S

    • Twitcher
      Twitcher
      January 16, 2022 at 2:39 am | #

      https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DJfYCbGnLjA *Plays Gales of Song on the hacked muzak*

  2. The Wellerman
    The Wellerman
    January 16, 2022 at 12:05 am | #

    That’s good. She needed to cry.

    • Cholma
      Cholma
      January 16, 2022 at 12:34 am | #

      Yes. Nothing like a good, body wracking, cathartic cry for one’s mental health. Everyone should try it once in awhile.

      • Clif
        Clif
        January 16, 2022 at 3:37 am | #

        Personally, I find periods of having nothing to cry about even better for my mental health.

        Shaking your fist at the sky and yelling “DAMN YOU WILLIS!” is also pretty cathartic. even if people look at you funny. Meh, they were going to look at me funny anyway.

        • Regret
          Regret
          January 16, 2022 at 6:03 am | #

          It can be hard to tell the difference between “having nothing to cry about” and an inability to be aware your feelings.

          • Pilgrim
            Pilgrim
            January 16, 2022 at 7:03 am | #

            Sorry, gotta quibble here: If you aren’t aware of your feelings, do you even have them? Feelings demand your attention by definition. I’ll accept denial, confusion, numbness, indifference or inarticulateness, but feelings have to be felt by definition.

            • The Wellerman
              The Wellerman
              January 16, 2022 at 7:15 am | #

              Do you become wet just by looking at water?

              There is such a thing as knowing your feelings are there, but distancing yourself from them.

            • Librain
              Librain
              January 16, 2022 at 12:47 pm | #

              You can absolutely be affected by your feelings without being self-aware enough to understand how or why, or even recognise that it’s happening at all.

              I’ve been working with my psych for a long time to try and unpack exactly what the hell is going on in my head, sometimes even just the basic emotions are just completely unrecognisable. I mean, you can’t measure sadness, it’s all just people trying to describe it – often using very abstract terms and poetic language. How is that supposed to help me know what sadness feels like?

              It’s like trying to describe a colour to a blind person. Without being able to point to something and say “this is sadness”, it’s all vague gestures – usually coming from a very neurotypical perspective that I can barely decipher, let alone identify with.

            • jdorr
              jdorr
              January 16, 2022 at 3:29 pm | #

              I occasionally realize I’m feeling an emotion by its physical side effects more so than actually feeling the emotion(makes it real fun when it’s heart hurting sadness)

            • Taellosse
              Taellosse
              January 16, 2022 at 9:06 pm | #

              No, feelings do not demand attention. They happen all the time without any attention being paid to them. Feelings can sometimes capture one’s attention unexpectedly, but much of the time, they’re just a thing that happens as one does things. We often have to stop and examine what we’re feeling and try to place them into a relevant context (“What was I thinking about when I started to feel this way? Did it remind me of something else? Did something significant happen?”) before we can even know what feelings they are at any given moment.

              Emotional responses happen at a level below conscious thought. That’s part of why they’re so hard to control. But it also makes it easy for them to be affecting your actions without you even knowing they’re there.

            • Stifyn Baker
              Stifyn Baker
              January 17, 2022 at 1:12 am | #

              I work with children with severe mental trauma (abuse victims and the like). Lack of emotional intelligence – the inability to recognise or deal with their own emotional states – is a very real problem for them.

          • Daniel M Ball
            Daniel M Ball
            January 16, 2022 at 7:17 am | #

            I could only WISH I cold be so compartmentalized that I don’t have to experience my emotions, it would make decision making and getting things done so much easier. Unfortnately, people who HAVE that ability tend to also be afflicted with some serious mental illnesses. It would be favorable to be logical without being either a sociopath or a psychopath, but that’s not realistic.

            anyway, it’s about time she broke down and let it out.

            • Catfishenfuego
              Catfishenfuego
              January 16, 2022 at 10:35 am | #

              Interestingly, tests on people who’ve had brain damage affect their ability to feel fear, anger or sadness tend to actually be terrible at making decisions. People who’ve physically lost the ability to feel fear especially straight up can’t make decisions for themselves anymore. ‘Negative’ emotions are really important for healthy thinking functioning and its a real issue that modern society has come to stigmatise them so much.

            • TempleBuilder
              TempleBuilder
              January 16, 2022 at 12:55 pm | #

              First time poster, so if something technical is messed up in this comment, that’s why.

              People often say that “the grass is greener on the other side”. I believe that this is applicable to your desire. Muting your emotions over the long term reduces your experience of the world into nothing. When I was still trying to not feel, so my mind would be clear, it was as if the world was overcast and gray, filled with fog. It was a lifeless existence. I did not feel fear, I did not feel sorrow, I felt no joy or contentment. There was no net positive, nor no net negative feeling. It all just reduced down to zero. Some would consider this a type of tourture, or hell. In doing this, I caused myself lasting mental damage, that lingers to this day. Namely, I can’t always tell when I feel emotion, much less what exactly I am feeling.

              Secondly, I am neither a sociopath or psychopath. I am just autistic, who, when younger, bought too much into stoicism. I am also pretty sure sociopaths and psychopaths can, in fact, feel emotions and aren’t more innately logical than anyone else.

              • The Wellerman
                The Wellerman
                January 16, 2022 at 7:33 pm | #

                I don’t know if you’d call it stoic, but I know I have feelings. Very strong ones. I know they’re there, but much of the time it just takes energy to express them, to make them easy for others to read. And when I do it’s exhausting.

                I’m just so grateful that I can make THESE digital faces easily, 🥲 without having to exhaust my brain. And it makes me worry less about people making hurtful assumptions about me and how I feel about anything.

              • Laura
                Laura
                January 16, 2022 at 9:47 pm | #

                Thank you for sharing your experience, TempleBuilder.

          • Needfuldoer
            Needfuldoer
            January 16, 2022 at 8:54 am | #

            She’s all too aware of her feelings, but deflects or compartmentalizes them instead of confronting and processing them.

            • Spencer
              Spencer
              January 16, 2022 at 8:58 am | #

              Yep.

              Amber crying and admitting she misses Mike is an admission to herself that she deserves to cry.

      • june gloom
        june gloom
        January 16, 2022 at 8:20 am | #

        I rarely feel better after crying. Usually I feel worse, and I cry a lot these days. I don’t particularly like it, and I often wish I could just stuff all those emotions back in like I used to.

        • Taellosse
          Taellosse
          January 16, 2022 at 9:14 pm | #

          We cry for different many different reasons. Expressing grief after a loss by crying is a healthy release for many. But emotional pain can feel oppressive and relentless, too, depending both on what is causing it and how your particular brain responds to it, and in that case tears might feel hopeless instead of cathartic.

          I’m sorry you’re feeling that way right now. I’ve been in a similar state myself. But in the long run, letting your emotions out is better, even if it doesn’t feel like it from where you are at the moment.

    • Tsa
      Tsa
      January 16, 2022 at 1:07 am | #

      same. I’m glad she found it in herself to allow this kind of release.

    • Wizard
      Wizard
      January 16, 2022 at 4:03 pm | #

      She’s been stomping down her emotions. Considering how that was working out, I think a good cry might actually be a healthier response. A little messy, maybe, but at least she’s actually trying to process and acknowledge what she’s feeling.

  3. Sirksome
    Sirksome
    January 16, 2022 at 12:05 am | #

    Well someone’s a crybaby. Look at her totally missing her dead friend and being sympathetic and relatable! Wimp!

    • MrBookBoy
      MrBookBoy
      January 16, 2022 at 2:07 pm | #

      Oh god, YOU’RE that awful voice in my head! Howdja ya’ escape an trap yerself in some scarved jerkass?

  4. brionl
    brionl
    January 16, 2022 at 12:06 am | #

    Amber two years later: What the hell am I doing on Sakaar?

    • Doctor_Who
      Doctor_Who
      January 16, 2022 at 12:10 am | #

      Amazi-Girl is the Grandmaster’s new champion.

    • Thag Simmons
      Thag Simmons
      January 16, 2022 at 12:25 am | #

      Wait how did the Hulk even get to Sakaar in those movies. Quinjets wouldn’t be capable of leaving orbit

      • AbacusWizard
        AbacusWizard
        January 16, 2022 at 12:40 am | #

        He’s a scientist. He can use one of his PhDs.

      • King Daniel
        King Daniel
        January 16, 2022 at 1:19 am | #

        I think they implied in the movie that one of the randomly-opening interplanetary wormholes Sakaar is notorious for just happened to randomly open over the Quinjet Hulk was in, from memory.

        • Thag Simmons
          Thag Simmons
          January 16, 2022 at 1:34 am | #

          I guess that’s fine? Bit contrived but whatever.

          • Bryy
            Bryy
            January 16, 2022 at 2:13 am | #

            oh it was so effing contrived.

            • Delicious Taffy
              Delicious Taffy
              January 16, 2022 at 4:12 am | #

              Good. More comic book bullshit for the sake of putting Hulks on planets, please.

          • vlademir1
            vlademir1
            January 16, 2022 at 5:53 am | #

            Everything involving Bruce and his alt in the MCU is contrived, since Disney can’t legally make the films to tell his story without Universal being part of that… their deal being that Disney can use Banner, Hulk, et al in MCU films that aren’t expressly Hulk films and Universal can make whatever Hulk films they like including none at all for the duration of the MCU (with Disney having some sort of right of refusal for scripts). Universal, to my understanding, consider such films too expensive for their return so don’t intend to bother.

            • Pilgrim
              Pilgrim
              January 16, 2022 at 7:13 am | #

              “Too expensive for their return” being a euphemism for “massive flop”. Because while the character is popular, his backstory doesn’t provide much grist for good filmmaking. Marvel got the better part of that deal by being able to use the Hulk without having to explain the Hulk.

              • Needfuldoer
                Needfuldoer
                January 16, 2022 at 8:57 am | #

                Any standalone Hulk movie is going to be DOA because audiences will expect it to tie in with the MCU.

                • Taellosse
                  Taellosse
                  January 16, 2022 at 9:19 pm | #

                  It doesn’t have to be that way – there’s nothing stopping Universal from working out an agreement like Sony’s over Spider-Man (in fact, they already did – the Hulk movie that had Edward Norton as Bruce is a part of the MCU already). They’re just not bothering because they think Hulk can’t carry a movie alone (and point to 1 bad and 1 mediocre movie as proof).

        • vlademir1
          vlademir1
          January 16, 2022 at 5:47 am | #

          That was indeed the case.

      • someone
        someone
        January 16, 2022 at 8:35 am | #

        I don’t think those are the types of movies that you should look at while keeping the part of your brain that knows about the Tsiolkovsky rocket equation active.

        In fact those movies pretty much require shutting down every part of your brain that knows anything about conservation of mass, conservation of energy, and the rules of thermodynamics.

      • EnerPrime
        EnerPrime
        January 16, 2022 at 10:12 am | #

        Shield quinjets sure, but an Avengers quinjet? Built by Tony Stark in what would’ve been the height of his “Oh God aliens are going to invade again we have to GET READY” PTSD and paranoia? I can see that being spaceworthy enough to get the Hulk to a wormhole.

  5. King Daniel
    King Daniel
    January 16, 2022 at 12:07 am | #

    When was the last time we had a strip with no dialogue?

    • King Daniel
      King Daniel
      January 16, 2022 at 12:08 am | #

      (Excluding the Timeskip™ strips, which had no dialogue but also had no characters present for the possibility of it)

      • davidbreslin101
        davidbreslin101
        January 16, 2022 at 5:35 am | #

        Timeskip strips- I’m now picturing dialogue rising from the university skyline, as they sometimes do in newpaper strips.

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      January 16, 2022 at 12:29 am | #

      (TW: Ryan, and everything that implies)

      My brain immediately thought of this strip… which, it turns out, actually DOES have a line of dialogue, and almost certainly was way too early anyway, but screw it I’m linking it anyway

      • Yumi
        Yumi
        January 16, 2022 at 12:36 am | #

        Continued Ryan TW

        Your comment actually reminded me of this strip, which I thought was going to be what you linked to. But this one actually does have no dialogue. Don’t know if it’s the most recent no-dialogue strip.

        • Nono
          Nono
          January 16, 2022 at 3:58 am | #

          There’s also technically any strip where Sal and Marcie communicate entirely in sign, but uh, that’s a technicality.

        • ValdVin
          ValdVin
          January 16, 2022 at 10:23 am | #

          I also thought of this one because it includes Amber and massive facial expressions & tears.

          And Amber being here certainly contributed to her finding herself in this arc.

        • Opus the Poet
          Opus the Poet
          January 16, 2022 at 5:40 pm | #

          You know most of Reed Hall needs to be getting regular therapy for their traumas, or at least all the main cast. How many assaults and murders have they seen or been close to? I mean on a personal level? Joyce’s near-rape, Amber beating her father half to death in front of Danny, the kidnapping and Toe Dad’s murder, Toe Dad kidnapping Becky in front of Dina and his armed assault, Ryan trying to assault Joyce in her dorm and getting fillleted with his own knife by Amber in front of Dorothy.

          Amber, Joyce, and Dorothy need full-time monitoring all by themselves.

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      January 16, 2022 at 1:27 am | #

      Did some further digging, and I’m pretty sure it’s this one.

      • Reltzik
        Reltzik
        January 16, 2022 at 2:10 am | #

        Yup, that’s the one I was about to link.

      • Rabid Rabbit
        Rabid Rabbit
        January 16, 2022 at 3:27 am | #

        And that technically has words in it, so may not entirely count.

        • Delicious Taffy
          Delicious Taffy
          January 16, 2022 at 4:14 am | #

          I mean, if we’re counting environmental text, a stop sign counts as dialogue.

    • Reltzik
      Reltzik
      January 16, 2022 at 8:25 am | #

      … actually, YESTERDAY’S strip had no dialogue.

      Amber was actually talking to herself, and that makes it a monologue.

  6. chuckroast
    chuckroast
    January 16, 2022 at 12:09 am | #

    Never thought I’d be so glad to see a character cry, but fuck yeah.

  7. Hampsterpig
    Hampsterpig
    January 16, 2022 at 12:11 am | #

    Yes! Process your grief in a healthy fashion!

    • Hampsterpig
      Hampsterpig
      January 16, 2022 at 12:13 am | #

      I also think it’s cool as hell that it is only amber in this strip, no alternates to confuse the issue, just pure grief.

  8. Yumi
    Yumi
    January 16, 2022 at 12:11 am | #

    GOOD FOR HER

  9. Nick Piers
    Nick Piers
    January 16, 2022 at 12:13 am | #

    “Niagara Falls!” – Scrooged

    • Slartibeast Button, BIA
      Slartibeast Button, BIA
      January 16, 2022 at 12:15 am | #

      Slowly I turned, step by step, inch by inch…

  10. butts
    butts
    January 16, 2022 at 12:13 am | #

    about TIME

  11. Nono
    Nono
    January 16, 2022 at 12:13 am | #

    Wait, people cry not face first into a pillow?

    • The Wellerman
      The Wellerman
      January 16, 2022 at 12:17 am | #

      When you’re sad like that, you’re often too exhausted to do ANYTHING, including turning around.

      • Sirksome
        Sirksome
        January 16, 2022 at 12:21 am | #

        No see what you don’t get is that Amber is aware that this is a comic and thus crying up into the ceiling frames her better for us the audience to see her emotions in these panels. It’s really for our benefit and shows what a true professional Amber is that even in a time of emotional distress she’s doing her best to entertain us!

        • The Wellerman
          The Wellerman
          January 16, 2022 at 12:22 am | #

          I guess humor can work as coping too.

          Wait, was that an attempt to be funny?

          • Sirksome
            Sirksome
            January 16, 2022 at 12:25 am | #

            Kind of. But I guess it was pretty bad if you have to ask. So I can’t really claim it was now. Which also makes me sad thus countering my attempt to cope with humor.

            • Yumi
              Yumi
              January 16, 2022 at 12:26 am | #

              I was amused by it, for what it’s worth.

            • The Wellerman
              The Wellerman
              January 16, 2022 at 12:44 am | #

              Nah, don’t sweat it. My humor and sarcasm detectors break down almost every other day. Neurodivergence! 😑

    • Thag Simmons
      Thag Simmons
      January 16, 2022 at 12:22 am | #

      Sometimes. It’s not necessarily the preferred option but it’s still a viable one

    • Robbie
      Robbie
      January 16, 2022 at 12:25 am | #

      I think she’s trying not to cry so she didn’t get into crying posture. been there.

    • Yumi
      Yumi
      January 16, 2022 at 12:25 am | #

      I like to try to avoid getting my pillow all snotty, personally.

      • Keulen
        Keulen
        January 16, 2022 at 9:15 am | #

        Same.

    • Reltzik
      Reltzik
      January 16, 2022 at 2:12 am | #

      Not with glasses on, ideally.

      I mean, “In the case or on your face” doesn’t really include pillow cases.

    • Nicole
      Nicole
      January 16, 2022 at 2:28 am | #

      Crying face into pillow is too hard for me to breathe so I avoid it

    • Lorien Inksong
      Lorien Inksong
      January 16, 2022 at 7:55 am | #

      yeah when that hits in my experience it leads to collapsing and sobbing. can and have gotten ‘stuck’ on wall crying for extended periods of time because I didn’t have the strength to alter the situation in any way. x_x

  12. BubbaFett
    BubbaFett
    January 16, 2022 at 12:19 am | #

    Good.

    Its a good start.

  13. Florence
    Florence
    January 16, 2022 at 12:20 am | #

    This is good but gosh does it hurt

  14. DailyBrad
    DailyBrad
    January 16, 2022 at 12:24 am | #

    Sometimes we have to cry it out.

  15. newlland(Henryvolt)
    newlland(Henryvolt)
    January 16, 2022 at 12:24 am | #

    I wonder how long the poor girl was holding that cry in.

    • EpochFlame
      EpochFlame
      January 16, 2022 at 1:00 am | #

      a very long time.

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      January 16, 2022 at 1:37 am | #

      In Lower Pomerania is the Diamond Mountain, which is two miles and a half high, two miles and a half wide, and two miles and a half in depth, and every hundred years a little bird comes and sharpens its beak on it. When the whole mountain is worn away by this, then the first tear will fall from Amber’s eyes.

      • Delicious Taffy
        Delicious Taffy
        January 16, 2022 at 4:16 am | #

        Personally, I think that’s a hell of a bird.

        • RassilonTDavros
          RassilonTDavros
          January 16, 2022 at 12:40 pm | #

          …that is the greatest Grav edit I’ve ever seen.

        • MrBookBoy
          MrBookBoy
          January 16, 2022 at 2:15 pm | #

          Crap, now I forget which book that came from. Is it Wyrd Sisters? Mort? Sourcery? I know it’s a TP one, and those were the ones I last read.

          • Delicious Taffy
            Delicious Taffy
            January 16, 2022 at 2:40 pm | #

            It’s a Doctor Who quote. I think the episode is called Hell Bent, and it’s really good.

      • eh, whatever
        eh, whatever
        January 16, 2022 at 7:43 am | #

        Lies, all lies. Lower Pomerania is low indeed; it’s obscenely flat.

      • UnDrewsual
        UnDrewsual
        January 16, 2022 at 10:58 am | #

        As an aside, I like the way Doctor Who used this.

        • RassilonTDavros
          RassilonTDavros
          January 16, 2022 at 12:39 pm | #

          At first I planned on directly quoting it from the Doctor Who episode, but as it turns out, the way the text is phrased there is kinda underwhelming when you take it out of the context of the scene, so I found a Grimm translation that looked decent and went from there.

  16. yttro
    yttro
    January 16, 2022 at 12:25 am | #

    grief crying like this feels so incredibly bad in a good way. i’m pretty sure i had those same motion lines when i was first processing my friend’s death from cancer

    “hell is finding someone to love and i can’t see you again”

  17. Mr D
    Mr D
    January 16, 2022 at 12:27 am | #

    That’s a good cry.

  18. Queen Anthai
    Queen Anthai
    January 16, 2022 at 12:28 am | #

    This is the healthiest emotional reaction I’ve ever seen Amber have and it’s such a relief.

  19. Rani
    Rani
    January 16, 2022 at 12:29 am | #

    Is this the first time we’ve seen Amber cry?

    • Sirksome
      Sirksome
      January 16, 2022 at 12:35 am | #

      No we’ve seen her cry a few times. This might be the first time she’s let herself cry without trying to hide behind Amazi-girl and from a source of mourning someone and not from trauma or self-loathing though.

      https://www.dumbingofage.com/2013/comic/book-3/04-just-hangin-out-with-my-family/shockingreveal/

  20. Beau Kirin Maysey
    Beau Kirin Maysey
    January 16, 2022 at 12:30 am | #

    oh this is coming out on my birthday… y a. a a y y y …

    • The Wellerman
      The Wellerman
      January 16, 2022 at 2:52 am | #

      Well if it makes you feel any better, happy birthday! 🤗

  21. Too Old To Be Cool
    Too Old To Be Cool
    January 16, 2022 at 12:30 am | #

    She desperately needs this.

  22. BBCC
    BBCC
    January 16, 2022 at 12:32 am | #

    Oh, sweetie. This part’s never fun.

    • StClair
      StClair
      January 16, 2022 at 2:26 pm | #

      Necessary, vitally so. But not fun.

  23. PippityPoppityPoop
    PippityPoppityPoop
    January 16, 2022 at 12:37 am | #

    this hurts

  24. Bunny
    Bunny
    January 16, 2022 at 12:41 am | #

    At Last.

  25. electriccombines
    electriccombines
    January 16, 2022 at 12:43 am | #

    I think this is the first DOA strip where like, I actually got a little emotional? I feel you, Amber. 🙁 <3

  26. ris
    ris
    January 16, 2022 at 12:48 am | #

    sympathy via heavy physical contact 🙁

  27. DarkoNeko
    DarkoNeko
    January 16, 2022 at 12:49 am | #

    yess, you can do it Amber. Stop unfeeling

  28. Ray Radlein
    Ray Radlein
    January 16, 2022 at 12:53 am | #

    🎶 THAT’S ENTERTAIIIIIIIINMENT! 🎵

  29. Megan Rivera
    Megan Rivera
    January 16, 2022 at 12:54 am | #

    It’s okay to be sad Amber. ♥

  30. TheLurkerAbove
    TheLurkerAbove
    January 16, 2022 at 12:55 am | #

    Finally Amber. Let the healing begin.

  31. Rainhat
    Rainhat
    January 16, 2022 at 12:57 am | #

    Good, that had to happen.

  32. 0kami
    0kami
    January 16, 2022 at 1:04 am | #

    It’s alright, Amber. Let the pressure vent.

  33. Plain Marie
    Plain Marie
    January 16, 2022 at 1:07 am | #

    Aw, Amber. You’re going to be okay.

  34. alongcameaspider
    alongcameaspider
    January 16, 2022 at 1:07 am | #

    Lot of comments cheering a young woman crying over the death of her friend tsk tsk I thought we were better then this /s

  35. Bicycle Bill
    Bicycle Bill
    January 16, 2022 at 1:29 am | #

    After fourteen months, I thought I was finally getting over losing my friend too – and I wasn’t anywhere near as close to her as Amber was to Mike. Turns out I wasn’t.
    Damn you, Willis.

  36. teddae
    teddae
    January 16, 2022 at 1:46 am | #

    Let it out!

  37. LazyReader
    LazyReader
    January 16, 2022 at 1:48 am | #

    When they cancel your favorite show

    • Delicious Taffy
      Delicious Taffy
      January 16, 2022 at 4:17 am | #

      When you go McDonal and ice cream broke

      • Spencer
        Spencer
        January 16, 2022 at 5:09 am | #

        When a character in a book is having difficulties

        • The Wellerman
          The Wellerman
          January 16, 2022 at 5:21 am | #

          When you worry you’ll never achieve hyper focus flow again 😫

          • Delicious Taffy
            Delicious Taffy
            January 16, 2022 at 5:41 am | #

            Hyperfocus is great until it’s been a week and the dishes are somehow all dirty even though you swear you’ve been reusing the same bowl and spoon this entire time.

            • Needfuldoer
              Needfuldoer
              January 16, 2022 at 9:05 am | #

              Get in the habit of putting dirty dishes in the dishwasher and running it when you use the second-to-last set. (Use liquid or powder detergent, not detergent pods.)

              Friggin’ game-changer. Don’t worry about “wasting water”, a typical dishwasher uses about 5 gallons on a normal cycle no matter how loaded it is.

              • Delicious Taffy
                Delicious Taffy
                January 16, 2022 at 11:00 am | #

                That would be dandy if we had a dishwasher. As good ol’ Mom used to say, “Hey, we got two dishwashers in this house, they’re just lazy.”

                • Needfuldoer
                  Needfuldoer
                  January 16, 2022 at 11:23 am | #

                  If you can’t install a full size one, get one of those countertop ones that look like a big microwave, or the freestanding kind you hook up to the sink. I used to scoff at them too, until I got a place that had one installed. Friggin’ game changer.

                • Delicious Taffy
                  Delicious Taffy
                  January 16, 2022 at 11:40 am | #

                  Or I could just get off my ass and wash the dishes once in a while. I mean, your advice is solid and others might be able to make better use of it, don’t get me wrong. I just don’t have the resources or space for that sort of appliance, is all.

                • Needfuldoer
                  Needfuldoer
                  January 16, 2022 at 2:42 pm | #

                  Aw. Cardboard boots strike again. 🙁

                • Delicious Taffy
                  Delicious Taffy
                  January 16, 2022 at 9:44 pm | #

                  I’m not familiar with that particular expression.

                • Yumi
                  Yumi
                  January 16, 2022 at 11:13 pm | #

                  I think it’s a Discworld reference. I’m not going to post the whole quote because it’s kinda long and would look longer this deep into the comments, but if you’re curious enough, you could search “cardboard boots Terry Pratchett.”

                  Interestingly, when I was looking at this exchange earlier, my thoughts were, “Oh, look, “problem solving” strikes again.” So it was surprising to come back and see that phrasing being used.

          • Spencer
            Spencer
            January 16, 2022 at 5:41 am | #

            Oh this happened to me after my initial rush of adderall. It fucking sucked, I thought I had a normal person’s brain just long enough to feel bad when I lost it.

            Fortunately, it wasn’t all doom and gloom. Turns out a lot of my problems there were nutrition-related at that point, so I’ve radically changed my dietary habits and only get burnt out come 9PM, which is probably more due to the fact that I wake up at like 5AM every day. Starting stuff is still a pain but I can easily maintain focus on it which is good enough for me.

            Unfortunately I’ve had a brain fog-filled last two months thanks to a still-going but mostly tapered physical health problem, oodles of stress, and my return to college getting delayed from last November to this May, and I’ve only been able to meaningfully come out of it the last few days.

            Being real for a sec: I’m 29 now, and it bothers me thinking how my life could have gone if I caught all this ADHD/ASD shit a decade ago instead of repeatedly humiliating myself trying to get a degree or in grunt work. I’m writing again! I can read books more easily than I ever have in my life! I can listen to a seminar and all I need is a fidget cube in my hand to burn off the excess energy! I’m able to like myself!

            And all it took was a pill with some meth.

            • The Wellerman
              The Wellerman
              January 16, 2022 at 5:53 am | #

              I don’t know then, if you’d call this thing I miss “hyperfocus”.

              It’s like when I was in this flow state, I was able to transmute my streams of anxiety into focus and passion for science, the same way a star could transmute heat into light.

              It was one where I lost all sense of time, of self, where every part of my brain was flowing with this power, focused on what I love. It was… a cognitive euphoria SUPER NOVA.

              I haven’t been able to feel like this in a long time, and sometimes I worry so badly that I’ve lost my spark.

              What if Dina wasn’t able to think about dinosaurs, wasn’t able to get that same brain happiness she always had?

              That’s exactly how I feel right now. It’s FUCKING AGONY 😫😫😫

              • The Wellerman
                The Wellerman
                January 16, 2022 at 4:24 pm | #

                I JUST WANT TO FEEL LIKE MYSELF AGAIN, SO SO BADLY 😫😫😫😫😫

              • Taellosse
                Taellosse
                January 16, 2022 at 9:33 pm | #

                No, hyperfocus is the appropriate word for that. Those of us that experience it might not feel it exactly the same way, but I definitely recognize your description. ADHD and ASD are both spectrum conditions, and everyone who has them experiences it a bit differently.

                I’m sorry you’re going through a rough patch right now. Hopefully you’re getting help to work through it?

                • The Wellerman
                  The Wellerman
                  January 16, 2022 at 9:54 pm | #

                  First of all, I commend your sympathy.

                  I don’t know if I’m “on the spectrum” (depends on what you mean by that), but I tend to stay away from big, sweeping labels like that and “autism” because they make it really difficult for neurotypicals to tell apart our disabilities from our personalities.

                  Suffice it to say that I’m a socially challenged neurodivergent some time ago was able to hyperfocus, and that this is a neurodivergent stripe that can occur alongside many others. I was diagnosed with Social Anxiety Disorder and Vocal Dysphoria, and enough obsessive-anxiety tendencies to pass out inches short of crossing the Obsessive Compulsive Disorder finish line, but even that does not suffice to capture all my unique neurodivergent stripes.

                  I can’t currently get help due to my current circumstances, but I guess as long as I don’t catch COVID-19, this is just fine for now. Could be worse, I guess. 😔

        • MrBookBoy
          MrBookBoy
          January 16, 2022 at 2:21 pm | #

          When the show brings out references from all of the past episodes in a blatant emotional show of hands

  38. Poskie
    Poskie
    January 16, 2022 at 1:51 am | #

    Look out Amber- that glow around your head in the last panel means that Gideon’s getting in your mind.

    • The Wellerman
      The Wellerman
      January 16, 2022 at 1:54 am | #

      Gravity Falls reference? 🙃

      • cmasta1992
        cmasta1992
        January 16, 2022 at 1:58 am | #

        Scott Pilgrim

    • Bicycle Bill
      Bicycle Bill
      January 16, 2022 at 2:19 am | #

      I don’t see a glow, but I do see lines emanating from her … which I assumed – especially since her mouth is hanging open in anguish in like that – meant she was sobbing audibly and uncontrollably.

    • Delicious Taffy
      Delicious Taffy
      January 16, 2022 at 4:55 am | #

      Usually I associate a character glowing from extreme emotions with a different story.

      • The Wellerman
        The Wellerman
        January 16, 2022 at 6:40 am | #

        May I ask what inspired your glowing avatar, then?

        • Delicious Taffy
          Delicious Taffy
          January 16, 2022 at 11:02 am | #

          Killing getting blown up on Namek, mostly.

    • Spencer
      Spencer
      January 16, 2022 at 5:10 am | #

      iunderstoodthatreference.png

      Scott Pilgrim’s a good time, even if it’s probably O’Malley’s weakest work.

    • Sporky
      Sporky
      January 16, 2022 at 9:54 pm | #

      Nah, that’s just her spider-sense

  39. Cmd1095
    Cmd1095
    January 16, 2022 at 2:11 am | #

    Low-key expecting this to be the moment Mike walks in and reveals he woke up from his coma. But that’s just me trying to dodge the feels

    • Clif
      Clif
      January 16, 2022 at 3:30 am | #

      And of course Amber continues to believe that real Mike is just her hallucination.

    • Taellosse
      Taellosse
      January 16, 2022 at 9:35 pm | #

      hesdeadjim.gif

  40. Kristine
    Kristine
    January 16, 2022 at 2:13 am | #

    Good for her, she needs a good ugly cry

  41. Bryy
    Bryy
    January 16, 2022 at 2:15 am | #

    FINALLY.

  42. Serendipity
    Serendipity
    January 16, 2022 at 2:16 am | #

    Alt text, no no it’s okay cry all you need to

  43. NinjaNick
    NinjaNick
    January 16, 2022 at 2:24 am | #

    That’s all right, Amber.

  44. PB
    PB
    January 16, 2022 at 2:33 am | #

    Goooood. Let the repressed emotions flow through you…

  45. Bagge
    Bagge
    January 16, 2022 at 2:47 am | #

    <3

  46. Rabisch
    Rabisch
    January 16, 2022 at 2:49 am | #

    Good! Finally, Amber ♡!!!

  47. Renadt
    Renadt
    January 16, 2022 at 2:53 am | #

    Let’s stop ignoring
    That our hearts aren’t mourning
    And let the rain come in.
    Let’s stop pretending
    That it’s not ending
    And let the end begin!
    -Kris Allen

  48. ADLegend21
    ADLegend21
    January 16, 2022 at 3:04 am | #

    Let it all out.mp3

  49. Spyder
    Spyder
    January 16, 2022 at 3:24 am | #

    Fun Fact: I lost my best friend of 9 years and 8 months today and this was the first thing I saw on the internet.

    Hell yeah, Willis.

  50. Carla's #2 Fan
    Carla's #2 Fan
    January 16, 2022 at 4:01 am | #

    Good, next healthy move? Sleep

  51. Amós Batista
    Amós Batista
    January 16, 2022 at 6:27 am | #

    When the badass hero cries. Like Batman.

  52. Arianod
    Arianod
    January 16, 2022 at 6:35 am | #

    Yay, progress! 😀

  53. AGV
    AGV
    January 16, 2022 at 6:43 am | #

    Saddest necessary crying catharsis

  54. Eldritchy
    Eldritchy
    January 16, 2022 at 6:44 am | #

    Hopefully the healing can now begin.

  55. Needfuldoer
    Needfuldoer
    January 16, 2022 at 8:38 am | #

    Finally. She’s needed this for months!

    It’s okay to let yourself feel things, Amber. You might have learned “avoidance and deflection as a coping mechanism” from your mother, but it’s not healthy.

    • Spencer
      Spencer
      January 16, 2022 at 8:48 am | #

      Yeah, Stacy is, unfortunately, not a great mom.

      Which, you probably don’t have time to take a course on it when you’re like 21 maybe, get married to and impregnated by a mob stooge, and then spend the next 14 years being constantly and viciously abused, and when you’re not, your daughter’s taking the brunt of it.

      If I had to guess, it was probably Blaine beating the shit out of Amber after the robbery that Stacy divorced him in this continuity too.

      • Needfuldoer
        Needfuldoer
        January 16, 2022 at 9:12 am | #

        He beat the shit out Stacy after the robbery.

        https://www.dumbingofage.com/2018/comic/book-9-comic/01-flyin-to-the-red/embarrassed/

  56. Dr T
    Dr T
    January 16, 2022 at 9:32 am | #

    Finally! A healthy and normal response from her!
    As V

  57. Sombrero
    Sombrero
    January 16, 2022 at 11:20 am | #

    The first time Joe really helps someone in DoA. Now if just Dr. Rosenthal didn’t fuck up this time…

  58. motorfirebox
    motorfirebox
    January 16, 2022 at 11:26 am | #

    Joe’s a pretty good brother.

    • Tim C.
      Tim C.
      January 16, 2022 at 9:10 pm | #

      Joe’s whole arc across several universes is climbing toward the light. I expect his beard to darken again soon.

  59. Lord_Circe
    Lord_Circe
    January 16, 2022 at 2:43 pm | #

    Yes. Here comes the catharsis. Hopefully.

  60. Kirtro
    Kirtro
    January 16, 2022 at 3:26 pm | #

    *sniffle* d-damn you Willis T^T

  61. Rikunda
    Rikunda
    January 16, 2022 at 3:41 pm | #

    It is about time she broke down. Shattered barriers and all left is her truth. She can now heal.

  62. Moonie
    Moonie
    January 16, 2022 at 4:01 pm | #

    This is healthy!!!

  63. TheFlamingonator
    TheFlamingonator
    January 16, 2022 at 4:17 pm | #

    Nothing like a Good Big Cry (not a joke bottling shit up is bad glad she can cr

  64. Gash
    Gash
    January 16, 2022 at 4:42 pm | #

    It’s inevitable, the longer you hold in the cry, the harder it’ll rip out of ya later.

  65. Opus the Poet
    Opus the Poet
    January 16, 2022 at 5:14 pm | #

    She’s finally processing her pain. If she was a real person I would be sending her comments of condolence to her blog.

    • Adept
      Adept
      January 16, 2022 at 6:08 pm | #

      Absolutely

  66. Inbar Fink
    Inbar Fink
    January 16, 2022 at 8:14 pm | #

    This is so sad, but like everyone else says, probably very good for her.

  67. Juanoku
    Juanoku
    January 16, 2022 at 8:18 pm | #

    Holy shit is that normal human emotion

  68. Jade
    Jade
    January 16, 2022 at 10:40 pm | #

    Display of empathy through light physical contact?

    In all seriousness, good for Amber; sometimes you just need to let the build-up of emotions come out.

  69. foducool
    foducool
    January 17, 2022 at 1:43 am | #

    welp that was LONG overdue

  70. Shadow Dreamer
    Shadow Dreamer
    January 24, 2022 at 9:14 pm | #

    My adoptive mother’s wake is on wednesday.

    This was the right time to read this.

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