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by David M Willis on January 29, 2020 at 12:01 am
  • 02 - To Remind You of My Love
└ Tags: becky, leslie

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  1. DarkoNeko
    DarkoNeko
    January 29, 2020 at 12:02 am | #

    time for Teh Talk

    • Cholma
      Cholma
      January 29, 2020 at 12:13 am | #

      What if Becky prefers Teh View? She might be a huge Joy Behar fan, you know.

  2. Suet
    Suet
    January 29, 2020 at 12:02 am | #

    “Yeah, I’ve snuck into one, but it was mine, which makes it fine.”

  3. shadowcell
    shadowcell
    January 29, 2020 at 12:03 am | #

    leslie standing there very adorably with a baseball bat held behind her back in panel 2 seems like it should be a magnet or something

  4. Bagge
    Bagge
    January 29, 2020 at 12:03 am | #

    Dorothy pops up from the couch: “Becky, you are better than this!”

    • Kyrik Michalowski
      Kyrik Michalowski
      January 29, 2020 at 12:05 am | #

      If Dorothy isn’t here to say it, the comments will be here to say it for her.

      • DarkoNeko
        DarkoNeko
        January 29, 2020 at 12:25 am | #

        Dotty is doing last-minute studying for midterms

        • Bagge
          Bagge
          January 29, 2020 at 12:31 am | #

          Not being able to multi-task is for people who don’t have enough notebooks.

          • Bagge
            Bagge
            January 29, 2020 at 2:41 am | #

            Behind LESLIE’S couch

    • Lingo
      Lingo
      January 29, 2020 at 12:33 am | #

      Robin pops up behind the couch: “Hey I found a Skittle!”

      • Bagge
        Bagge
        January 29, 2020 at 12:50 am | #

        Honestly, Robin poping up from behind Becky’s couch is just to be expected at this point.

        • Bagge
          Bagge
          January 29, 2020 at 3:56 am | #

          Behind LESLIE’s couch

          • Bagge
            Bagge
            January 29, 2020 at 3:57 am | #

            aaaaaand I posted my correction to the wrong comment. Dig up, bagge. Dig up!

            • Bagge
              Bagge
              January 29, 2020 at 10:15 am | #

              aaaaand I posted my correction of my correction to the correction I posted at the right comment, not the correction I posted at the wrong comment, necessitating this correction-correction.

              UP, Bagge. UP!!!!

              • Ryek Hvek
                Ryek Hvek
                January 29, 2020 at 12:34 pm | #

                if you added any more, the result would be like those letters of protest appearing in episodes of Monty Python’s Flying Circus (RIP Terry Jones)

  5. Bobcat
    Bobcat
    January 29, 2020 at 12:04 am | #

    Everybody get ready to jump on the feels train! Choo-choo!

  6. Kyrik Michalowski
    Kyrik Michalowski
    January 29, 2020 at 12:04 am | #

    Come on Becky, you are better than this. Be an adult and have a conversation with her. I know this isn’t Smarting of Age but you do have manners, right?

    • Bagge
      Bagge
      January 29, 2020 at 12:09 am | #

      But she doesn’t want to be an adult in her relationship with Leslie. She wants to be a bratty troublemaker of a teenage daughter and have a Strained But Ultimately Loving mother-daughter relationship with her scared mess of an awesome lesbian mother.

      If nothing else because that confirms their relationship as mother-daughter.

      and all things considered, I can’t really blame Becky for wanting to play house a bit.

      • Kyrik Michalowski
        Kyrik Michalowski
        January 29, 2020 at 12:12 am | #

        I was under the impression that she did not want Leslie to act as her mother and was part of the reason that she moved out? Of course I could be entirely mistaken on that.

        • Bagge
          Bagge
          January 29, 2020 at 12:15 am | #

          I read that completely differently. I think she moved out to not feel like a mooch, and because she was ashamed for working for Robin after the entire mess between her and Leslie.

          • Kyrik Michalowski
            Kyrik Michalowski
            January 29, 2020 at 12:19 am | #

            I guess we’ll see which it is when they speak to each other. Although the feeling ashamed for working for Robin I can definitely understand.

    • abysswatcher1993
      abysswatcher1993
      January 29, 2020 at 12:10 am | #

      At certain point I wish the dumbing stopped. Cynicism become tiresome as comedians kicking the same dead horses over and over, like constant bigoted jokes of South Park.

      • Kyrik Michalowski
        Kyrik Michalowski
        January 29, 2020 at 12:14 am | #

        I’ll say the same thing I tell anyone else, the jokes will stop when the situation no longer exists. And the situation continues in perpetuity for man of these things, including many things South Park’s jokes.

      • Bagge
        Bagge
        January 29, 2020 at 12:14 am | #

        Dunno about that. For me this is a comic about people constantly struggling to improve themselves, and doing a fantastic job about it. When the dumbing continous it’s because they simply find NEW things to be dumb about

        Just look at Joyce’s interaction with Jacob, where she has gone though at least three different itirations of dumb.

        • Kyrik Michalowski
          Kyrik Michalowski
          January 29, 2020 at 12:21 am | #

          That much I can definitely agree with, and I’m not saying this comic is making the same situations over and over. But it is pointing out situations that still exist and are therefore relevant. I may not have worded my first comment very well.

        • Regalli
          Regalli
          January 29, 2020 at 12:23 am | #

          Yeah, college is how you discover new and exciting ways to fuck up, and maybe, when you’re done, you’ll have figured out how to prevent doing a couple of those things again.

          We’re only halfway through fall freshman semester. They’re gonna keep coming up with new ones. (Even arcs that seem to hit similar beats – say, Amber/AG – have been evolving. AG is no longer stalking Sal, Sal knows who Amber is, and they’ve tentatively made peace while the dissociative issues have gotten more dire.)

          • Bagge
            Bagge
            January 29, 2020 at 12:29 am | #

            and as we saw just two days ago, now they have entirely new ways to be fucked up together.

          • Chris Phoenix
            Chris Phoenix
            January 29, 2020 at 3:07 am | #

            Wow. I did college very … differently … than that. I assumed college was for learning, and that’s mostly what I did. Now I feel like I did it wrong.

            Sure, I did other things at college, but they were all secondary – they fit around the edges and never seriously interfered with my learning. In fact, I’m not sure I’ve ever had a “discover new and exciting ways to fuck up” phase of life.

            I’ve done lots of exciting things, but I’ve always made sure to be slightly more cautious than adventurous. Slightly more deliberate than spontaneous. So I’ve done six extreme sports and never gotten a significant injury from any of them – does that make me boring or exciting? I don’t actually know how I feel about it myself.

            • Adam Black
              Adam Black
              January 29, 2020 at 3:49 am | #

              It would be probably sound very exciting,
              if you didnt suck all the fun of it with Humblebrags.

              • Chris Phoenix
                Chris Phoenix
                January 30, 2020 at 1:37 am | #

                I was trying to talk about myself, not sound a certain way. If I wanted to sound exciting or brag, you would know it.

            • Bagge
              Bagge
              January 29, 2020 at 3:58 am | #

              I’m sure Sarah and Dorothy would approve.

            • vlademir1
              vlademir1
              January 29, 2020 at 2:21 pm | #

              College is not and has never really been purely about academics. Even at the original medieval universities (which taught only theology, law, medicine and art) students (who could typically be anywhere between mid-teens and early forties) had reputations among staff and surrounding communities for things like drunken debauchery. Making stupid mistakes and trying to learn from them has always been a recognized and accepted part of the process just as much as pure scholastic learning.

  7. Stephen Bierce
    Stephen Bierce
    January 29, 2020 at 12:05 am | #

    *hacked Muzak switches from Nirvana to The Mamas & The Papas’ “Words of Love”*

  8. Bagge
    Bagge
    January 29, 2020 at 12:06 am | #

    This is the Bratty lesbian teenage daughter / Scared mess of an awesome lesbian mom who see through her bullshit content I crave.

    Becky, bless her soul lowers her guard to engineer a confrontation, but not enough to actually tell Leslie how she feels. Leslie, bless her heart, sees right through it and can meet Becky halfway.

    Heartfellt but Hurt talk coming up!

    • StClair
      StClair
      January 29, 2020 at 12:19 am | #

      Becky craves it too, apparently.

      • Bagge
        Bagge
        January 29, 2020 at 12:28 am | #

        Oh yes! So very much.

  9. abysswatcher1993
    abysswatcher1993
    January 29, 2020 at 12:07 am | #

    Becky, it’s time you prove to edgelord Joyce that you can have morals and be a better person. Just talk with Leslie. It isn’t about finding a solution yet, but just… talk. When people don’t communicate there’s isolation and then violence.

  10. BBCC
    BBCC
    January 29, 2020 at 12:07 am | #

    Sorry, Becky, Leslie’s better at Mom-ing than you anticipated.

    • Bagge
      Bagge
      January 29, 2020 at 12:10 am | #

      I’m pretty sure Leslie is just as good at mom-ing as Becky anticipated.

      • DailyBrad
        DailyBrad
        January 29, 2020 at 12:19 am | #

        if anything, that’s probably the worry. She already had a good mom who up and died on her. She’s probably terrified of round two.

        • Bagge
          Bagge
          January 29, 2020 at 12:27 am | #

          Oh dear, I didn’t consider that angle but you are right.

          Scared messes all around

  11. Reltzik
    Reltzik
    January 29, 2020 at 12:07 am | #

    Becky, accept that Leslie’s got more experience with pulling crap than you do, and it will always be that way.

    Then rebel against that truth.

  12. Doctor_Who
    Doctor_Who
    January 29, 2020 at 12:08 am | #

    I’ve just realize that I’ve mentally cast these two with the voices of Pearl and Amethyst, and I’m trying to remember if there was a point where that started or if it just Always Was.

    • LeslieBean4shizzle
      LeslieBean4shizzle
      January 29, 2020 at 12:09 am | #

      … Pearl is an amazing voice option for Leslie.

      Thank you for this mental gift. I shall treasure it always.

      • Bagge
        Bagge
        January 29, 2020 at 12:11 am | #

        Hah! Yes, I can hear it.

    • Mordecai
      Mordecai
      January 29, 2020 at 1:02 am | #

      Oh my god, that works well.

      But I’ve been giving Becky the voice of Natasha Lyonne (Smoky Quartz) and *man*, has it been great. Especially when she’s peak sarcasm.

      • Mordecai
        Mordecai
        January 29, 2020 at 1:06 am | #

        https://youtu.be/7xWStxdBdNs

        Messed that one up.

  13. LeslieBean4shizzle
    LeslieBean4shizzle
    January 29, 2020 at 12:09 am | #

    … why did the background come sharply into focus in the last panel?
    I am suddenly very paranoid about that artistic choice.

    • Doctor_Who
      Doctor_Who
      January 29, 2020 at 12:15 am | #

      You know how in Shortpacked Roadblock from Ethan’s poster had magical powers and his stare could force you to do the right thing?

      Becky’s about to get a long slow look from Leslie’s Leia poster back there and fess up some feels.

      Carrie Fisher watches over us from beyond.

      • Regalli
        Regalli
        January 29, 2020 at 12:25 am | #

        Does going to therapy extend into Carrie Fisher’s previously established Space Mom domain of ‘take your meds’? Just want to be sure when to thank Space Mom appropriately.

        • Khyrin
          Khyrin
          January 29, 2020 at 12:15 pm | #

          I don’t think it’s ever inappropriate to thank Space Mom.

    • Keulen
      Keulen
      January 29, 2020 at 12:15 am | #

      So we can see that Star Wars poster on the wall, obviously. Though with Willis I think being a little paranoid is not unreasonable.

      • BarerMender
        BarerMender
        January 29, 2020 at 3:02 am | #

        I think the more important element of the last frame is the couch. The couch Leslie generously and lovingly let Becky sleep on and which Becky threw back in her face.

    • DarkoNeko
      DarkoNeko
      January 29, 2020 at 12:28 am | #

      probably to show she stopped moving

    • Slartibeast Button, BIA
      Slartibeast Button, BIA
      January 29, 2020 at 12:46 am | #

      She is activating her powers. In the DoA movie it will be freeze-framed and then the viewpoint spins around her while zooming in.

    • BarerMender
      BarerMender
      January 29, 2020 at 3:00 am | #

      Becky joins reality. Reality is real.

  14. Clif
    Clif
    January 29, 2020 at 12:09 am | #

    Damn You, Willis. You’ve left me no obvious opening for bringing up Mike.

    • He Who Abides
      He Who Abides
      January 29, 2020 at 12:11 am | #

      He just hid it. And you found it in the end.

      • Lieutenant Dan
        Lieutenant Dan
        January 29, 2020 at 10:05 pm | #

        “That’s what she said.” Hurr, hurr, hurr…

    • Bagge
      Bagge
      January 29, 2020 at 12:12 am | #

      This is about Becky’s relationship with her adopted mom.

      …I’m sure there is a Mike-ism in there somewhere

      • Clif
        Clif
        January 29, 2020 at 12:18 am | #

        Right you are. How did I miss that?

        • Lone Duck
          Lone Duck
          January 29, 2020 at 5:00 am | #

          If you want more Mike, it’ll cost you a nickel.

  15. Kim
    Kim
    January 29, 2020 at 12:11 am | #

    I love how all these mini-stories we follow in the wake (npi) of Mikes fall, feels like a series of very down-to-earth, solemn, reconnections with/tying up of loose ends.

  16. Regalli
    Regalli
    January 29, 2020 at 12:12 am | #

    1) God they need hugs,
    2) I’m pretty sure Leslie heard about the breakin with the Brown sisters, but also I’m remembering Leslie’s got Becky’s background but a few years’ later breaking point and oof, that line’s suggestive of Sad Backstory given that fact.
    3) See point one.

  17. Keulen
    Keulen
    January 29, 2020 at 12:13 am | #

    Meanwhile we still have no clue if Mike’s alive or dead.

  18. DailyBrad
    DailyBrad
    January 29, 2020 at 12:21 am | #

    Becky and Leslie are good folk. I hope Becky can find it in her to love and trust again with someone who really wants to be a mom to her.

    (I mean, Robin wants to look out for her, too, but kinda reads more like a big sister with questionable life decisions than motherly)

  19. pdp15
    pdp15
    January 29, 2020 at 12:23 am | #

    This isn’t really Becky. It’s a plant substitute … oops, sorry, just got here from Skin Horse …

  20. bryy
    bryy
    January 29, 2020 at 12:45 am | #

    This it, everyone! All of the arc plotlines are gearing up to resolve in chronological(?) order! GET READY FOR EXTRA MIKE WITH A SIDE OF DAMN YOU WILLIS!

  21. Sazazezer
    Sazazezer
    January 29, 2020 at 1:15 am | #

    There’s possibly performance issues with the website. If you look closely between panels five and six, you’ll see the background pops into existence.

    • Roborat
      Roborat
      January 30, 2020 at 4:06 pm | #

      Or the matrix is glitching out again.

  22. BenRG
    BenRG
    January 29, 2020 at 2:10 am | #

    Becky: “Wait, am I being criticised for being insufficiently sneaky, unkind and ungrateful? What the hell kind of world is this?!?”

    • Diane
      Diane
      January 29, 2020 at 8:57 am | #

      The right kind of world.

  23. Meagan
    Meagan
    January 29, 2020 at 3:23 am | #

    Becky’s hair is growing out and she looks older here. I like it. I often find her visually annoying but not here. Maybe cuz she has expensive clothes from her fancy new job?

    • BenRG
      BenRG
      January 29, 2020 at 4:47 am | #

      It’s nicely symbolic too: Becky the girl is quickly being overtaken by Becky the young woman.

  24. miri
    miri
    January 29, 2020 at 6:12 am | #

    I think Becky may want to talk to her surrogate mum about how she reconciles her faith with desire for PREMARITAL HANKY PANKY, so she gets to enjoy physical intimacy with her girlfriend… Leslie having come from a similar background seems a sensible person to approach about this…

    However, I suspect Leslie may be agnostic/atheist now… I can’t remember if she states her beliefs anywhere though?

    • Bagge
      Bagge
      January 29, 2020 at 7:04 am | #

      She said “Thank God” so she’s probably in denial about how much she still believes in God.

      http://www.dumbingofage.com/2017/comic/book-7/03-the-thing-i-was-before/caress/

      • Happilychaotic
        Happilychaotic
        January 29, 2020 at 7:54 am | #

        I say “Thank God” often and I have never been a Christian, maybe it’s just a cultural thing.

        • huttj509
          huttj509
          January 29, 2020 at 9:08 am | #

          Yeah, I sometimes notice myself using Jeez or Jesus as a word of exasperation, and I’ve never been Christian.

          • Bagge
            Bagge
            January 29, 2020 at 10:16 am | #

            I often says “Thursday”, and obviously I celebrate the Norse god of Thunder.

            Just as I in August celebrate the roman emperor-turned god

            • Marsh Maryrose
              Marsh Maryrose
              January 29, 2020 at 2:39 pm | #

              Surely you also similarly celebrate Tiu, Woden, Freya, and Saturn.

              • Lieutenant Dan
                Lieutenant Dan
                January 29, 2020 at 10:03 pm | #

                … but for me, it was Tiu’s day.

                • He Who Abides
                  He Who Abides
                  January 29, 2020 at 10:37 pm | #

                  👏

                  👏

                  👏

                  👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 👏👏👏👏

        • Marsh Maryrose
          Marsh Maryrose
          January 29, 2020 at 2:41 pm | #

          As a programmer and an agnostic, I say “Thank $deity”

  25. Rabisch
    Rabisch
    January 29, 2020 at 7:55 am | #

    Who is ready for a dramatic and awkward mother-daughter separation (or reconciliation) talk? Probably it will involves some tears too.

    • BenRG
      BenRG
      January 29, 2020 at 8:22 am | #

      “So… uh… Dina wants to do… it.”

      “Yeah, so?”

      “I haven’t got the first clue of how to and besides doing it without a ring on her finger is a sin!!!”

      Long beat. Leslie walks out of shot and returns with a ring.

      “This should be the right size. Go for it, girl. More importantly, go for it later and elsewhere because I’ve got to get to work and I assume you have to do the same for Robin.”

      • Bagge
        Bagge
        January 29, 2020 at 10:17 am | #

        ….also, she… won’t be wearing a hat!!!!

  26. MutantSentry
    MutantSentry
    January 29, 2020 at 3:11 pm | #

    …meanwhile in a deserted back ally…

    Mike: *goans*

    A cat sniffs at him, leaps over him to chase a rat.

    in the distance a dog barks

    • Slartibeast Button, BIA
      Slartibeast Button, BIA
      January 29, 2020 at 5:45 pm | #

      A door slams.

      The maid screams.

      Suddenly a pirate ship appears on the horizon!

      • Chris
        Chris
        January 29, 2020 at 8:28 pm | #

        Gradually, a shot rang out.

        • He Who Abides
          He Who Abides
          January 29, 2020 at 10:38 pm | #

          I believe you’ve written yourself into a corner.

          • Roborat
            Roborat
            January 30, 2020 at 4:10 pm | #

            Nobody puts baby in a corner.

    • Carl-E
      Carl-E
      January 29, 2020 at 10:55 pm | #

      Just going to leave this here for those who don’t follow Something*Positive.

      https://www.somethingpositive.net/sp01272020.shtml

      My apologies if it’s already been posted elsewhere.

  27. Ryek Hvek
    Ryek Hvek
    January 29, 2020 at 5:54 pm | #

    Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition!!

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