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June 1, 2026

Down-low

by David M Willis on December 23, 2024 at 12:01 am
  • 02 – The One Where Jocelyne Returns
└ Tags: becky, dorothy, jocelyne, joe, joyce

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  1. NGPZ
    NGPZ
    December 23, 2024 at 12:01 am | #

    *plays “Filthy/Gorgeous by Scissor Sisters on hacked muzak*

  2. Ana Chronistic
    Ana Chronistic
    December 23, 2024 at 12:01 am | #

    now imagining a Joyce confession

    Joyce: “I’ve touched Joe’s PENIS.”
    Joss: “Oh, is THAT what you think it was?”
    Joyce: o_O “psst Dorothy, what did I touch on Joe”

    • mindbleach
      mindbleach
      December 23, 2024 at 12:07 am | #

      Dorothy: Sideshow Bob eeeughgueeugheugh.

      • CianM1301
        CianM1301
        December 23, 2024 at 2:46 am | #

        Comments you can hear.

      • Furie
        Furie
        December 23, 2024 at 3:34 am | #

        Just belly laughed at that so hard I literally trampolined my dog off me.

    • Deanatay
      Deanatay
      December 23, 2024 at 12:13 am | #

      Joss: That’s his ‘taint’. As in, “Tha taint Joe’s penis”.

      • Proxiehunter
        Proxiehunter
        December 23, 2024 at 2:18 am | #

        Taint his ass either.

        • Ray
          Ray
          December 24, 2024 at 12:24 am | #

          SOMEbody’s been watching “Booty Call”

    • Mark
      Mark
      December 23, 2024 at 7:52 am | #

      Dorothy: I wasn’t there, maybe you should ask Joe.

  3. Doctor_Who
    Doctor_Who
    December 23, 2024 at 12:01 am | #

    “And feel free to gently nibble it while you’re there.”

    • DJTsurugi
      DJTsurugi
      December 23, 2024 at 7:03 pm | #

      been trying so hard not to comment all over this page, because there is so much les coding going on in this page. ~<3

  4. Nono
    Nono
    December 23, 2024 at 12:03 am | #

    So how long before Joyce tells Jocelyne she’s touched Joe’s wiener?

    • Thag Simmons
      Thag Simmons
      December 23, 2024 at 12:03 am | #

      I give her seven minutes

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        December 23, 2024 at 8:49 am | #

        So we will get to it by mid-January?

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      December 23, 2024 at 12:15 am | #

      The real question is how long before Joyce discusses her washing machine adventure with Dorothy?

      • Needfuldoer
        Needfuldoer
        December 23, 2024 at 7:20 am | #

        It will come tumbling out eventually.

        • Michael Steamweed
          Michael Steamweed
          December 23, 2024 at 8:49 am | #

          She’s positively vibrating to tell someone.

          • Reltzik
            Reltzik
            December 23, 2024 at 10:42 pm | #

            Not really.

            Her laundry experience with Dorothy, THAT’S what she’s positively vibrating to tell so- *vaudeville hook*

            • Reltzik
              Reltzik
              December 23, 2024 at 11:02 pm | #

              … and that’s what people were already talking about. I read the thread twice before posting that. What the hell, brain?

              • Needfuldoer
                Needfuldoer
                December 24, 2024 at 4:06 am | #

                Don’t worry, it all comes out in the wash.

  5. Cholma
    Cholma
    December 23, 2024 at 12:05 am | #

    I also would like Dorothy to whisper in my ear, because I only know “on the down low” to mean “keep this discrete/secret”.

    • Yumi
      Yumi
      December 23, 2024 at 12:10 am | #

      If it’s “keep this on the down-low” or such, that is what it means, but if it were like, “he’s on the down-low,” that would refer to a guy who identifies as straight and also has sex with other men.

      • Rose by Any other Name
        Rose by Any other Name
        December 23, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

        OH. Well don’t I feel silly for posting several seconds after you did.

      • StClair
        StClair
        December 23, 2024 at 12:12 am | #

        Huh. I had no idea.

      • Opus the Poet
        Opus the Poet
        December 23, 2024 at 12:16 am | #

        That’s the definition I’ve known for almost 30 years, from the gay Afro-American community.

      • Cholma
        Cholma
        December 23, 2024 at 12:21 am | #

        Well, well. Looks like I am one of XKCD’s “10,000” today!

      • Dawn
        Dawn
        December 23, 2024 at 12:44 am | #

        I have also never heard this before and thought it meant what Joyce thought.

        • Yumi
          Yumi
          December 23, 2024 at 1:05 am | #

          Yeah, I’d be surprised if Dorothy knew the meaning Jocelyne is implying.

      • SevenFerns
        SevenFerns
        December 23, 2024 at 1:39 am | #

        It can also be used to refer to guys who date trans women but don’t want anyone to know they’re dating a trans woman. This is often incredibly dangerous for the trans woman.

        • Yumi
          Yumi
          December 23, 2024 at 9:13 am | #

          I tried to add a note that I was giving a simplified explanation in my comment, but I put it in tags that made it disappear. Anyway, thanks for adding on, and I know there are more aspects that others can expand on.

      • Proto
        Proto
        December 23, 2024 at 3:13 am | #

        Damn kids these days and their hip new slang!… or hip new interpretations of pre-existing slang!… or versions of slang that have been around a real long time that I didn’t know about!

        • Needfuldoer
          Needfuldoer
          December 23, 2024 at 7:21 am | #

          I used to be “with it”, then they changed what “it” was!

        • Michael Steamweed
          Michael Steamweed
          December 23, 2024 at 8:51 am | #

          Down low for closeted sex is the older, original slang. Down low for secretive arrangement is the newer, more recent slang.

          • Sulsgoode
            Sulsgoode
            December 23, 2024 at 9:30 pm | #

            The “secretive arrangement” version has been around for decades.

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      December 23, 2024 at 12:10 am | #

      Yeah, same.
      Joyce used it oddly in the sentence, but her definition was, if anything, adding more sexual implication that the statement actually has.
      I assume Jocelyne is just teasing her here?

      • Ol' Monster Face
        Ol' Monster Face
        December 23, 2024 at 6:39 am | #

        My reading was that Jocelyne thinks it’s not very “on the down-low” to post evidence of your underage drinking scam on a public social media feed accessible by your family members.

    • Aubrey
      Aubrey
      December 23, 2024 at 12:13 am | #

      It is also AAVE slang for a black man who identifies as straight but seeks out gay sexual relationships, but the definition you (and Joyce) are referring to is perfectly valid and FAR FAR more common. “That’s not the ONLY thing ‘on the down low’ means” would make more sense as the line. As it’s currently written, the reader is apparently meant to assume that Joyce is wrong in her understanding of the phrase, which she is not.

      • Armadillo
        Armadillo
        December 23, 2024 at 12:26 am | #

        You have failed to consider the possibility that Jocelyne is deliberately pretending Joyce’s use of the phrase is weird for the purpose of sibling harassment, as is her right as elder.

        • Mr D phone posting
          Mr D phone posting
          December 23, 2024 at 3:45 am | #

          Elder sibling rights, we get to protect and teach, but mostly tease.

        • HueSatLight
          HueSatLight
          December 23, 2024 at 10:13 am | #

          Maybe a combination of finding out how Joyce meant it (since Jocelyne did see the photos, and also met Ethan when Joyce was “dating” him), and a larger amount of teasing.

    • Mark
      Mark
      December 23, 2024 at 7:56 am | #

      None of this is at variance with the general meaning “secretly”.

      • Nymph
        Nymph
        December 23, 2024 at 10:15 am | #

        The connotation is what’s different, not the exact definition.

    • Mano308gts
      Mano308gts
      December 24, 2024 at 2:10 am | #

      I would take it to be referring to the fact that her definition is correct, but the usage is wildly incorrect; in other words, the phrase does not get used in the way in which she is using it, regardless of having that meaning.

  6. Slartibeast Button, BIA
    Slartibeast Button, BIA
    December 23, 2024 at 12:06 am | #

    [clueless_old_guy]
    What does “on the down-low” mean?

    • Madock345
      Madock345
      December 23, 2024 at 12:08 am | #

      Usually means you’re dating same-sex in secret. You put DL “down low” in your profile on gay dating sites to tell people to be discrete.

      • Thag Simmons
        Thag Simmons
        December 23, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

        It does get used as a more general discretion thing, I’ve definitely seen it in non-sexual contexts

      • ColdFury
        ColdFury
        December 23, 2024 at 12:12 am | #

        That would explain Becky’s face in the last panel.

      • Jon
        Jon
        December 23, 2024 at 12:55 am | #

        “Usually” is relative. I wager most of the population wouldn’t blink at Joyce’s usage. That’s the standard. Its use in the gay community is more niche.

        Jocelyne is teasing/messing with Joyce.

      • Bibbleforp
        Bibbleforp
        December 23, 2024 at 3:06 am | #

        To my knowledge:Madock is right. When referring to a person being “down low” or “on the down low” it pretty much always implies closeted homosexuality.

        I think the non-gay meaning only applies to general information or actions. Like “Hey, I’ll help you out but keep it on the down low.” When referring to a person it’s implicit the secret is that they’re gay.

    • darkoneko
      darkoneko
      December 23, 2024 at 12:08 am | #

      [english as 3rd language]
      I was wondering, too

      • PedanticJerkass
        PedanticJerkass
        December 23, 2024 at 2:13 am | #

        [English as 1st language]
        I was wondering, too.

      • Jeremiah
        Jeremiah
        December 23, 2024 at 11:34 am | #

        [English 2nd language]
        I got it through the context of the conversation and the look Jocelyn give as having a double meaning related to being secretly gay.

    • HueSatLight
      HueSatLight
      December 23, 2024 at 12:09 am | #

      secretly but “actively” gay.

      • HueSatLight
        HueSatLight
        December 23, 2024 at 12:12 am | #

        https://www.dumbingofage.com/dee-ell/

        • Michael Steamweed
          Michael Steamweed
          December 23, 2024 at 8:56 am | #

          Awww, those two! So above-board, clearly communicating, cute, direct, honest, knowing themselves, and wholesome! 🙂

    • Slartibeast Button, BIA
      Slartibeast Button, BIA
      December 23, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

      So “in the closet” is passe?

      • Yumi
        Yumi
        December 23, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

        There’s overlap, but it’s different.

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        December 23, 2024 at 8:59 am | #

        Possibly, for its sexual connotation, in the closet was mostly a white gay culture phrase, from the 60s onward. Down low became a mostly black gay culture phrase, from the 70s(ish) onward.

        But in the closet is much older than that, meaning just keeping anything secret. Couple centuries, at least, in British English, and copied by Americans. (like in political speech, gossip speech, forming unions, etc)

    • Freezer
      Freezer
      December 23, 2024 at 12:13 am | #

      It’s generally used to describe black men who engage in clandestine gay sex, but don’t consider themselves gay.

      Basically, if Aaron from Pixie Trix Comix was black…

      • Michael Steamweed
        Michael Steamweed
        December 23, 2024 at 9:00 am | #

        What?! Aaron’s not gay! He just likes to bro out with his bros! Away from the overwhelming presence of all those womens who always hang on him all the time. (poor fellow) What’s wrong with that? 😀

      • Da Boy
        Da Boy
        December 23, 2024 at 4:52 pm | #

        They must be remembering the times as Roman Legionaries, it ain’t gay if you are the one penetrating.

    • Deanatay
      Deanatay
      December 23, 2024 at 12:16 am | #

      Only wrong answers, right?

      • Deanatay
        Deanatay
        December 23, 2024 at 12:19 am | #

        “On the dee-ell” is slang for wearing a strap-on.

        • Rose by Any other Name
          Rose by Any other Name
          December 23, 2024 at 12:26 am | #

          Fucking what?!
          As a lesbian who owns multiple strap-ons and makes frequent use of them, I have never in my live used “on the Dee ell” in reference to strapped sex nor ever heard any of my many sapphic friends do so either.
          Is this a regional thing? Like people calling all sodas “coke”?

          • Yumi
            Yumi
            December 23, 2024 at 12:39 am | #

            Consider that Deanatay is responding to their own “only wrong answers” comment.

            • Deanatay
              Deanatay
              December 23, 2024 at 7:39 am | #

              Don’t forget, Joyce is a size six. 😉

            • Rose by Any other Name
              Rose by Any other Name
              December 23, 2024 at 9:30 am | #

              Yeah, I didn’t really get why Deanatay posted that (only wrong answers) either. It sounded to me like they were saying that all the other commenters had given wrong answers, which seemed unlikely.

              Thank you, Yumi, for clarifying that it was intended to start a joke thread. That makes more sense.

        • Opus the Poet
          Opus the Poet
          December 23, 2024 at 12:30 am | #

          Or a trans-man wearing a packer in public so as to present a bulge.

          • Michael Steamweed
            Michael Steamweed
            December 23, 2024 at 9:01 am | #

            Is a packer a cod piece?

            • Nymph
              Nymph
              December 23, 2024 at 10:19 am | #

              Kinda? It’s a prosthetic (the ones I’ve seen have been silicone) that is meant to give the appearance of having a bulge (like Opus said). There are also versions which allow you to urinate standing up (a cup and drain situation) or which can also be used during sex (colloquially called pack-and-play).

              • Nymph
                Nymph
                December 23, 2024 at 10:20 am | #

                Notably, unlike a codpiece (usually external piece of armor to my knowledge), packers hang out inside the underpants.

                • Michael Steamweed
                  Michael Steamweed
                  December 23, 2024 at 7:38 pm | #

                  Ahh. I am now less ignorant of these things than I was a minute ago. Thanks!

  7. Heavensrun
    Heavensrun
    December 23, 2024 at 12:07 am | #

    Well, Joyce, the good news is that I’m pretty sure the more Dorothy gently whispers things in your ear, the more likely you are to end up actually on the down-low.

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      December 23, 2024 at 12:21 am | #

      Some washing machines might consider her already there.

      • gnomedeplume
        gnomedeplume
        December 23, 2024 at 7:40 am | #

        I’d say they were a bit more up high for that

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      December 23, 2024 at 9:03 am | #

      Joyce (weeks later): “Guys, I have an announcement. Dorothy and I have been doing the gay down low thing for each other. I’m sorry we’ve been keeping it a secret.”

      Everyone else: “Yeah, we’ve known for months now.”

      *cue Joyce face

  8. darkoneko
    darkoneko
    December 23, 2024 at 12:07 am | #

    At least someone’s enjoying their fries, but how about the rest of yous go fetch food (or re-fetch, in Dina’s case) and get seated already

  9. Icalasari
    Icalasari
    December 23, 2024 at 12:08 am | #

    Ok I’m with Joyce. I thought on the down-low meant keeping things low key and secretive

    • JessWitt
      JessWitt
      December 23, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

      It can mean two things! But yes I thought the same as well.

      • Aubrey
        Aubrey
        December 23, 2024 at 12:16 am | #

        It does mean that, in the vast majority of contexts. Even in the sexual context that people are describing here, it’s referring back to the original meaning of the phrase (being secretive/discreet).

        • Aubrey
          Aubrey
          December 23, 2024 at 12:21 am | #

          Looked into it and the sexual meaning IS the original meaning. I’m a dingus. Can’t edit/remove my original comment so I’ll just leave this here!

          • Adam Black
            Adam Black
            December 23, 2024 at 12:25 am | #

            Ive heard it both ways.

            But as a self ID , Closeted Gay/Bi man had blown up in the African American community by 2003

          • Mongoose
            Mongoose
            December 23, 2024 at 3:06 pm | #

            The phrase “the down low” is used to mean “something not commonly known” in a non-sexual context in the story “Willie Was His Name, Sir” by Sam Hellman published 1925 in the Saturday Evening Post. It does seem like it wasn’t a very common phrase (at least in writing) before the sexual context took over, though.

    • Skewbrow
      Skewbrow
      December 23, 2024 at 12:19 am | #

      Me too, but me being a furriner that is not surprising. I am a bit more worried about my browser (or google?) being able to suggest/autofill “on the down low meaning” as a buzzword when I was half way into typing it.

      • Lexi
        Lexi
        December 23, 2024 at 3:15 am | #

        Presumably, there was a lot of other people who read this particular webpage, then went to google that phrase. Cause um… I sure did.

        Honestly, I’m more concerned about discussing with my husband if my phone has induction charging, and then immediately having amazon pop up with the exact “occult style light up charging pad” I was saying I’d want. Cause that was entirely verbal and it definitely picked that up via the mic.

        • Michael Steamweed
          Michael Steamweed
          December 23, 2024 at 9:06 am | #

          You think that’s invasive? Just wait some years when we all have affordable neuralink smartphones in our brains, hooked up to the internet of things, all of it monitored by the tech giants. 😀

          • Roborat
            Roborat
            December 23, 2024 at 4:28 pm | #

            Which is a thing explored in the Stray Cat Strut stories.

    • Adam Black
      Adam Black
      December 23, 2024 at 12:27 am | #

      I think ‘On the down low’ was secret.

      But “Down-Low” took over as closeted MSM among Black Americans.

      ‘on the’ was dropped.

    • Heavensrun
      Heavensrun
      December 25, 2024 at 2:52 pm | #

      There is a difference between “keeping it on the down-low” and “BEING on the down-low.”

      “Keep it on the down-low” means staying quiet and secretive about whatever “it” is.

      BEING on the down-low means that it is *you* that is the secret being kept. Because you’re super gay and don’t want people to know.

  10. Trixie Jubilation
    Trixie Jubilation
    December 23, 2024 at 12:11 am | #

    “This”, Jocelyn, being… your little sister’s awkward lesbian awakening?

  11. Wraithy2773
    Wraithy2773
    December 23, 2024 at 12:15 am | #

    Regarding the preponderances of alternate definitions of “the down-low”, let me assure everyone of something.

    An older sister playfully toying with the younger sibling about things is absolutely in character :D.

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      December 23, 2024 at 9:07 am | #

      Oh definitely! ‘Tis ancient tradition! Nay, it’s Jocelyne’s sacred right! And the ultimate pay off is TJF! (The Joyce Face [TM])

    • Jeremiah
      Jeremiah
      December 23, 2024 at 11:31 am | #

      I refuse to believe “preponderances” is a real word. You made that up, I accept nothing else.

      • Opus the Poet
        Opus the Poet
        December 23, 2024 at 5:14 pm | #

        It has been a legal term since before the American revolution.

        • Jeremiah
          Jeremiah
          December 23, 2024 at 6:32 pm | #

          Everyone knows america isn’t real.

  12. IntangibleMatter
    IntangibleMatter
    December 23, 2024 at 12:21 am | #

    Jocelyne has clearly missed getting to poke fun at her sister

  13. Charles Phipps
    Charles Phipps
    December 23, 2024 at 12:33 am | #

    Is it weird that I really want to see the Bulmeria protests?

    Also, somehow for Jocelyn to become part of the main cast.

    GRADUATE COURSES!

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      December 23, 2024 at 9:32 am | #

      I would love to see Jocelyne join the main cast – although maybe she and Joyce should coordinate so as to not have almost identical hair styles. They look far too identical right now.

  14. Taffy
    Taffy
    December 23, 2024 at 1:10 am | #

    The ship isn’t gonna sail, but it’s still fun to watch.

  15. BBCC
    BBCC
    December 23, 2024 at 1:19 am | #

    Ahhhh, Joss is the best big sister.

  16. DashWallkick
    DashWallkick
    December 23, 2024 at 1:40 am | #

    Early comic for tomorrow isn’t helping me here, why does Becky look so heartbroken here? Is she still thinking about “your sexuality might change”?

    • Bash
      Bash
      December 23, 2024 at 2:48 am | #

      Because Joyce was unintentionally gay with Dorothy?

    • Rolf of Many Doors
      Rolf of Many Doors
      December 23, 2024 at 3:08 am | #

      Becky continues to have an intentionally-antagonistic-on-her-part relationship with Dorothy due to her jealousy over Dorothy having a larger part in Joyce’s life recently than Becky has had, despite Becky and Joyce having been best friends for most of their lives until Joyce left for college. Dorothy being the one Joyce turns to for things continues to be a sore spot for Becky.

      • Thag Simmons
        Thag Simmons
        December 23, 2024 at 4:23 am | #

        Also Joyce’s feelings for Dorothy are different than they are for Becky. Not necessarily romantic, but certainly a lot closer to being romantic, and that’s gotta sting for someone who was nursing a crush for basically her whole life

        Not being into girls at all is one thing, not being into you specifically is another.

        • cbwroses
          cbwroses
          December 23, 2024 at 9:21 am | #

          Is Becky aware of that though?
          I’m reasonably sure that any moments implying that are those the readers have seen, but Becky hasn’t.
          Then again, there’s a lot of material so I could be wrong.

    • HueSatLight
      HueSatLight
      December 23, 2024 at 9:50 pm | #

      She also doesn’t know what “on the down low” means.

  17. Rolf of Many Doors
    Rolf of Many Doors
    December 23, 2024 at 2:15 am | #

    I dunno the specific name of the fallacy, and it’s related to the Ad Populum fallacy, but basically it’s “If you’re in a group of 100 people that think one way about the same thing, it’s easy to think that that thing you all think is normal due to . If 900 other people think another way about that same thing, while the 100 people who think that way are still a lot of people, it’s also still only 10% of the population that thinks that way, 100/9900 -> 1%, etc.”

    The main reason why Jocelyne would think saying that you are “on the down low” – which normally means “secretive” in general – would mean what most here in the comments say means “secretive about one’s sexuality” is because they’re a person in a community where that phrase is used much more commonly to refer to that, rather than the general population’s definition of the term. It’s important to note that Joyce’ usage of the term, to most people, shouldn’t lead one to believe that “on the down low” would mean she’s being secretive about her sexuality/gender/whatever.

    • Taffy
      Taffy
      December 23, 2024 at 2:17 am | #

      It really isn’t that important to note, is it?

      • Rolf of Many Doors
        Rolf of Many Doors
        December 23, 2024 at 3:03 am | #

        Its importance is subjective, true, but to me it’s an important distinction and piece of context that until I commented it hadn’t been mentioned in the discussion of today’s strip so far.

        • Mark
          Mark
          December 23, 2024 at 8:05 am | #

          It may not have earth-shattering significance, but it is interesting, so thanks for characterizing it for us.

        • Yumi
          Yumi
          December 23, 2024 at 9:05 am | #

          Well, yeah, because it’s obvious.
          Jocelyne is also likely teasing Joyce with the different meanings, since Joyce said *she* was on the down-low, which is unusual phrasing for her intended meaning.

          • cbwroses
            cbwroses
            December 23, 2024 at 9:18 am | #

            Wasn’t obvious to me.
            I was beginning to wonder if I’d been misunderstanding the phrase the whole time.
            To be clear, I know that the phrase CAN be used in regards to someone hiding their sexuality, but I would only ever associate it with secrets in general without context, so big sis implying that general secrets is not what it refers to threw me.

            • Yumi
              Yumi
              December 23, 2024 at 9:21 am | #

              For the obvious part, I was only talking about the part they had said it was “important to note,” as that what was being discussed.

              And that part was that the sexual meaning wasn’t how Joyce was using it and that most people wouldn’t think of it that way.

            • Yumi
              Yumi
              December 23, 2024 at 9:45 am | #

              I definitely knew that thinking in both meanings wouldn’t be obvious to most people; immediately figured people in the comments would have questions upon reading the strip.

              Jocelyne almost definitely knows people use the phrase in different ways and that many people wouldn’t know the meaning she’s implying. I’d doubt she’d actually fall in the fallacy being described. She wants to tease Joyce, though I think her comment would have been better as, “Oh, and that’s ALL you think it means.”

              Free of context, I would think saying someONE is on the down-low would be using the sexuality meaning, while saying SOMETHING (including someone’s action) was on the down-low would be secretive in general.

              “Secretive” is still a bit different than “good at keeping secrets,” like Joyce is going for.

    • Daibhid C
      Daibhid C
      December 23, 2024 at 3:31 am | #

      Speaking as A Clueless Straight Guy, I would hear it as meaning she had some specific secret she was keeping, decide it probably didn’t mean she was secretly on drugs, and probably land on the sexuality thing by default.

      I would not interprete as meaning she was good at keeping secrets in general unless she told me, because I’ve never heard anyone use it to mean that before.

      • Daibhid C
        Daibhid C
        December 23, 2024 at 3:35 am | #

        To be clear, “some specific secret she was keeping” regarding her own lifestyle.

      • thejeff
        thejeff
        December 23, 2024 at 9:47 am | #

        If some one just announced out of the blue they were “on the down low”, I’d probably assume something similar.
        In the context of what Joyce said about sneaking into a bar and being cool and knowing how bad Joyce is with slang in general, I think I’d get what she’s trying to say.

        And then, if I was her big sister, tease her mercilessly about it.

  18. Charles Phipps
    Charles Phipps
    December 23, 2024 at 2:21 am | #

    Jocelyn has a lot of confidence they know more than Joyce and almost all of that is unearned.

    I mean, she didn’t even know superheroes exist.

  19. Bash
    Bash
    December 23, 2024 at 2:47 am | #

    I googled it and now I am saying “oh no” while laughing. It’s too good.

  20. Kyulen
    Kyulen
    December 23, 2024 at 3:28 am | #

    Either I didn’t know that meaning of “down-low” until I googled it just now, or I learned it long ago but forgot. In any case I can’t blame Joyce for not knowing. But it’s gonna be funny when she finds out.

    • ValdVin
      ValdVin
      December 23, 2024 at 6:35 am | #

      I didn’t ever hear “down bad” until earlier this arc.

      Younger webcomic creators than I are doing their best to keep me current.

      • Needfuldoer
        Needfuldoer
        December 23, 2024 at 7:27 am | #

        But if you haven’t heard of Strong Bad until now… Holy crap!

    • gnomedeplume
      gnomedeplume
      December 23, 2024 at 7:43 am | #

      That’s why it’s generally a good idea to check what terms mean before incorporating them into your regular vernacular

      • Mark
        Mark
        December 23, 2024 at 8:07 am | #

        Or just use them and brace yourself for embarassment — that’s how we learn.

        • Buck Ripsnort
          Buck Ripsnort
          December 23, 2024 at 8:39 am | #

          Learned the hard way about “nonce”. Thought it meant “a short time.”

          • thejeff
            thejeff
            December 23, 2024 at 9:51 am | #

            It does.

            I think the other use is specifically British slang? And fairly recent?

            • Mark
              Mark
              December 23, 2024 at 6:46 pm | #

              The other? You mean “a large random number used once to initialize an exchange of secret or authenticated communication”? That’s used all over.

              • thejeff
                thejeff
                December 23, 2024 at 11:16 pm | #

                Nah, the pedophile one.
                Though it’s apparently older than I thought.

          • Taffy
            Taffy
            December 23, 2024 at 12:24 pm | #

            Playing Final Fantasy 14 has made that word very fun. Characters talking about doing stuff “for the nonce” makes sense in context, but it also makes it sound like the Scions are under the thumb of a creep.

  21. Arianod
    Arianod
    December 23, 2024 at 4:38 am | #

    Return of the Joyce Eye Twitch 😀

    • Amós Batista
      Amós Batista
      December 23, 2024 at 9:46 am | #

      … I’ll gonna animate it

  22. Da Boy
    Da Boy
    December 23, 2024 at 5:20 am | #

    By This does she mean Joyce or are the fries here just so good she had to have some XD

    • gnomedeplume
      gnomedeplume
      December 23, 2024 at 7:42 am | #

      I think she’s using the fry to point at her out self

      • Da Boy
        Da Boy
        December 23, 2024 at 9:02 am | #

        Oh yeah that makes sense

    • thejeff
      thejeff
      December 23, 2024 at 9:52 am | #

      I think she means teasing Joyce.

  23. mysterious cube
    mysterious cube
    December 23, 2024 at 6:31 am | #

    Considering the “laundry” she did with Dorothy*, she probably is on the down low

    *And wanting Dorothy to tell her how to have sex. And getting Dorothy to draw her naked. I guess we can’t include exchanging nudes because that was an accident but still, she did that too

  24. ValdVin
    ValdVin
    December 23, 2024 at 6:33 am | #

    Joyce is down low for her, down bad for him, and will someday learn what these terms mean.

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      December 23, 2024 at 9:10 am | #

      I’m down for that.

    • gnomedeplume
      gnomedeplume
      December 23, 2024 at 4:24 pm | #

      She’s making that down payment, she’s down to clown (frivolous merriment as far as she knows)

      • Roborat
        Roborat
        December 23, 2024 at 4:37 pm | #

        I get knocked down, but I get again. You’re never gonna keep me down.

  25. Johnny Assay
    Johnny Assay
    December 23, 2024 at 8:05 am | #

    I’m just waiting for the day when she proudly refers to herself as a “friend of Dorothy”.

    • thejeff
      thejeff
      December 23, 2024 at 9:57 am | #

      A long time ago.

      Though she still doesn’t know.

    • Tesset
      Tesset
      December 23, 2024 at 9:57 am | #

      Exciting news! Wait no longer, friend!

  26. FluffyLlamacorn
    FluffyLlamacorn
    December 23, 2024 at 8:19 am | #

    I only knew “down low” in the general secret, so before I looked into the comments for further definitions, I figured Jocelyne was implying that instagramming your salacious adventures is very bad secret keeping. Especially with the reminder that Jocelyne’s going to a protest with her phone off tomorrow. She might be teasing Joyce about the other definition, but I still think that’s a major part of it?

  27. Michael Steamweed
    Michael Steamweed
    December 23, 2024 at 8:47 am | #

    Yes, Dorothy, very gently, do whisper into Joyce’s ear. Quietly guide her into its deeper meaning. 😀

    • Yumi
      Yumi
      December 23, 2024 at 9:18 am | #

      Unfortunately, it would seem extremely unlikely to me that Dorothy would know the other meaning. She’ll just have to find other things to whisper into Joyce’s ear.

      • Jeremiah
        Jeremiah
        December 23, 2024 at 11:25 am | #

        Dorothy: “Omelette du fromage”

        Joyce: *Faints*

        • Proxiehunter
          Proxiehunter
          December 23, 2024 at 6:38 pm | #

          I don’t know, sounds pretty cheesy.

        • Michael Steamweed
          Michael Steamweed
          December 23, 2024 at 7:42 pm | #

          Dorothy as Gomez Addams and Joyce as Morticia Addams is a mental image I was not expecting to invade my headspace this day. Yet here we are now. 😀

          • Jeremiah
            Jeremiah
            December 23, 2024 at 9:03 pm | #

            It was a Dexter Lab reference actually.

            • Slartibeast Button, BIA
              Slartibeast Button, BIA
              December 23, 2024 at 10:26 pm | #

              Dee-dee…

  28. Hof1991
    Hof1991
    December 23, 2024 at 8:49 am | #

    That Joyce says this with her large boyfriend behind her and her hands on her
    gal pal is simply perfect. Joss will be telling this story forever.

    • Michael Steamweed
      Michael Steamweed
      December 23, 2024 at 7:40 pm | #

      “So, Jocelyne, what brings you here?”

      “I need more stuff to write about. And I think Joyce is going to give me far more than I will need for the next ten years.”

  29. Jackie
    Jackie
    December 23, 2024 at 10:02 am | #

    Taking the piss out of her sister and eating french fries. That’s some real trans rep

  30. Zamperla
    Zamperla
    December 23, 2024 at 8:45 pm | #

    I mean. Technically speaking. By the OTHER definition. Legally. Biblically. Yes, technically, yes she is also that.

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