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June 24, 2026

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by David M Willis on March 19, 2025 at 12:01 am
  • 03 – Me And Who You Say I Was Yesterday
└ Tags: jennifer, joyce

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  1. Ana Chronistic
    Ana Chronistic
    March 19, 2025 at 12:02 am | #

    “I have made a grave mistake.” – Gob

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

      … was “Gob” the sound of Jennifer suddenly kissing Joyce?

      • insomniac
        insomniac
        March 19, 2025 at 12:26 am | #

        possibly but it’s also the name of a character from Arrested Development

        • Giffem
          Giffem
          March 19, 2025 at 12:56 pm | #

          adventure time ruin hearing about Gob

      • GreyICE
        GreyICE
        March 19, 2025 at 1:36 am | #

        Joyce is building a harem of confused bisexuals.

        • Furie
          Furie
          March 19, 2025 at 2:43 am | #

          Aren’t we all? Or am I doing life wrong again?

          • clif
            clif
            March 19, 2025 at 11:32 am | #

            Can confirm. If you aren’t confused, you’re doing life wrong.

            Specifically you’re probably not paying attention.

            • Lilith Rose
              Lilith Rose
              March 19, 2025 at 4:27 pm | #

              Always remember Planck was told by his professor while in college that physics was nearly a complete science, and that there won’t be much to figure out.

              … then Planck broke it.

              Like… all of it.

              And for those of you who don’t know who Planck is, Planck was Einstein’s Einstein.

              (And for the whole other two people who will get this joke…)

              And, to top it off…

              Planck was a man of Action.

              • Jamie
                Jamie
                March 20, 2025 at 1:01 am | #

                Well. He was a man of at least Action…

        • Hoboturtle
          Hoboturtle
          March 19, 2025 at 6:51 am | #

          They’re all confused. Only some about their sexuality, but confused all the same.

        • Decidedly Orthogonal
          Decidedly Orthogonal
          March 19, 2025 at 5:51 pm | #

          Hmmm.. my harem only contains one person, she isn’t confused, but she is bi. So one outta three?

    • clif
      clif
      March 19, 2025 at 2:46 am | #

      I have horribly miscalculated. – Mike
      https://www.dumbingofage.com/2018/comic/book-8/04-of-mike-and-men/amazon/

  2. Animedingo
    Animedingo
    March 19, 2025 at 12:02 am | #

    *thor face*

    • Animedingo
      Animedingo
      March 19, 2025 at 12:14 am | #

      Is she tho

    • Amós Batista
      Amós Batista
      March 19, 2025 at 1:15 am | #

      your avatar is

  3. Thag Simmons
    Thag Simmons
    March 19, 2025 at 12:02 am | #

    Upsetting realization that Joyce is better at this than she is in 3… 2…

    • RocketRelm
      RocketRelm
      March 19, 2025 at 12:10 am | #

      This is unironically a pretty good plan, which was *not* what I was expecting, but goog doing Joyce.

      • Archieve
        Archieve
        March 19, 2025 at 1:04 am | #

        Especially if Alice remembers her from the last time they met, showing that Jennifer still has friends from first semester is her best hypothetical proof of not being totally destructive.

      • Mturtle7
        Mturtle7
        March 20, 2025 at 3:15 pm | #

        CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT! We love to see it!

    • ABunchOTrees
      ABunchOTrees
      March 19, 2025 at 12:15 am | #

      “…Wow. Joyce PULLS, actually.” Jennifer already knew, it just took her until now to realize it applies to her too.

      • Deanatay
        Deanatay
        March 19, 2025 at 12:35 am | #

        BJ is also learning that Joyce pulls in a non-sexual way, as well.

        • Needfuldoer
          Needfuldoer
          March 19, 2025 at 2:37 am | #

          What about Charles and Hawkeye?

          • Arioch
            Arioch
            March 19, 2025 at 7:01 am | #

            Hawkeye already knew, Master of the Obvious when it comes to charismatic girls.
            Charles Emmerson Winchester the Third on the other hand stopped paying attention to Joyce last semester.

            • Matthew Davis
              Matthew Davis
              March 19, 2025 at 8:42 am | #

              Joyce will show some sort of musical skill — I imagine wacky hijinks involving piano and trying to get one of her friends together with someone — and Winchester will take notice.

        • Matthew Davis
          Matthew Davis
          March 19, 2025 at 8:44 am | #

          He won’t do anything about it, though. Loyal to Peg and all that

          Why yes, I skew older than most of the commenters, and my parents have a lot of MASH on when I visit on holidays. Why do you ask?

          • Nymph
            Nymph
            March 19, 2025 at 9:00 am | #

            I don’t know how old you are, but a large portion of the commentariat is older than you might think. 30+ easy, many over 40.

            • Deanatay
              Deanatay
              March 19, 2025 at 9:04 am | #

              So, yeah, children.

              At heart, at least.

              • clif
                clif
                March 19, 2025 at 12:33 pm | #

                If the second 75 years are as entertaining as the first 75, it’s all good.

              • Taffy
                Taffy
                March 19, 2025 at 5:15 pm | #

                ‘She was only 62, you sick fuck!”

            • Plain Marie
              Plain Marie
              March 19, 2025 at 1:54 pm | #

              Many over 50. Or pushing 60.

            • morleuca
              morleuca
              March 19, 2025 at 5:22 pm | #

              some of us get to age backwards, though

    • AnonGrouch
      AnonGrouch
      March 19, 2025 at 12:23 am | #

      That last panel is not the face of an upset person. She looks relieved and happy in my opinion. Maybe this is Jennifer’s path to becoming better. Being happy someone is better than her, even in an indirect round about way, is something that’d be good for her I think.

      • Needfuldoer
        Needfuldoer
        March 19, 2025 at 2:39 am | #

        When’s the last time anyone genuinely told her she’s their friend?

        Contrast this with the last time she saw Raidah.

      • Envy
        Envy
        March 19, 2025 at 3:07 am | #

        Yeah, I think that’s the face of someone who didn’t realize how truly lonely they were until this little bit of no-strings-attached kindness.

        • DashWallkick
          DashWallkick
          March 19, 2025 at 3:39 am | #

          This is my read also. Joyce says they’re friends so they’re friends, and she can do her a solid here because it means something to Jennifer, and Jennifer is so confused and disoriented by this because to her friendship is when you keep someone at arm’s length then swoop in to solve a crisis for them and emotionally disappear immediately afterwards.

          • Matthew Davis
            Matthew Davis
            March 19, 2025 at 8:45 am | #

            Don’t forget she’s spent a term in Raidah’s orbit, and Raidah’s friendship is transactional even when it’s not toxic.

      • Lilith Rose
        Lilith Rose
        March 19, 2025 at 4:34 pm | #

        “I leave Jennifer at Joyce’s feet. One always finds one’s burdens again. But Jennifer teaches the higher fidelity that negates her social standing and raises a friendship with those she perceives as her superior. She too concludes that all is well. The universe henceforth without a master seems to her neither sterile nor futile. Each atom of that friendship, each rung on that night-filled social ladder, in itself, forms a world. The struggle itself toward the social heights is enough to fill a girl’s heart. One must imagine Jennifer happy.”

    • anon
      anon
      March 19, 2025 at 1:16 am | #

      how many lunches can they really tolerate with each other tho lol.

      i mean billiefers more tolerable than mary but it would be am amusing time jump if it’s like “Wow even /joyce/ can’t handle more than four lunches with her”

    • Daibhid C
      Daibhid C
      March 19, 2025 at 2:25 pm | #

      I do not believe Jennifer is capable of realising that. But I’m prepared to be wrong.

  4. Dante
    Dante
    March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

    Jennifer. Jennifer.

    You’ve got an actual friend here. Please do notice ;AA;

    • Samniel
      Samniel
      March 19, 2025 at 12:17 am | #

      I came to say the same thing, I’m hoping this leads to Jen realizing she HAS (one) friend who likes her for HER. But this IS Jennifer…

      • Blume
        Blume
        March 19, 2025 at 1:14 am | #

        I’d like to think the last panel was her realizing 🙂

        • Kim
          Kim
          March 19, 2025 at 2:51 am | #

          Me too =)

    • Bryy
      Bryy
      March 19, 2025 at 8:31 am | #

      I want to trust it, but the way she has been acting since the beginning of the arc says she’s about to fucking burn Joyce’s bridge.

      • John Campbell
        John Campbell
        March 19, 2025 at 1:57 pm | #

        Joyce won’t let her. That’s why this bridge is still there after Jennifer burned all of her others. She will be friends with Joyce, like it or not. It’s the same strategy Joyce used on Sarah.

  5. Doopyboop
    Doopyboop
    March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

    You know what, I’m proud of Joyce. It’s a low bar, but I’m glad she cleared it. It is indeed creepy and overbearing to march up to someone you don’t know and tell them they should re-friend their old friend who is now your friend.

    • VolticEXE
      VolticEXE
      March 19, 2025 at 11:18 pm | #

      Its always really genuine with Joyce too, so even clearing the low bar is great for her.

  6. Lux
    Lux
    March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

    I can’t tell if that’s despair or happiness in the last panel.

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      March 19, 2025 at 12:04 am | #

      Or sudden arousal.

      • True Survivor
        True Survivor
        March 19, 2025 at 12:06 am | #

        Disappsal?

      • NGPZ
        NGPZ
        March 19, 2025 at 12:07 am | #

        I’m hoping it’s this unironically >:D

      • Nerrin
        Nerrin
        March 19, 2025 at 12:07 am | #

        Crap, I hope not. First Becky, then Joe, now Dorothy. If Joyce gets any more friends suddenly into her she’s going to develop a complex.

        • John Campbell
          John Campbell
          March 19, 2025 at 12:11 am | #

          It’s spelled “harem”.

          • Proxiehunter
            Proxiehunter
            March 19, 2025 at 12:14 am | #

            They can be quite complex.

            • Effie
              Effie
              March 19, 2025 at 12:31 am | #

              You’d need to build a complex to house your harem.

              (Tho, I guess if they live in a complex and not a house, maybe it’s a complex to complex your harem?)

          • Deanatay
            Deanatay
            March 19, 2025 at 12:37 am | #

            And harems often give their protags complexes. By being complex..

    • Sillygoose
      Sillygoose
      March 19, 2025 at 9:11 am | #

      That’s her poor battered little heart growing three sizes

      • thejeff
        thejeff
        March 19, 2025 at 8:20 pm | #

        That’s not good. Get her to the ER, stat.

  7. Nono
    Nono
    March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

    This feels like some kind of trap card.

    • Sirksome
      Sirksome
      March 19, 2025 at 12:09 am | #

      What we don’t know is that Joyce friended Alice a long time ago. They’ve been in regular contact for months and she sent Alice to forest the same time Jen usually wakes up so they’d bump into each other again, knowing that would spark Jennifer’s desire to reconnect. This would inevitably lead Jennifer into relying on Joyce and thus completing the setup for them to have lunch together indefinitely. All according to plan.

      • Shakes
        Shakes
        March 19, 2025 at 12:15 am | #

        Joyce’s real goal was to not have to have lunch with Walky every day.

        • clif
          clif
          March 19, 2025 at 11:51 am | #

          While that has a certain plausibility, it’s a Mike plan and not a Joyce plan.

  8. Leaflet Erin
    Leaflet Erin
    March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

    I can’t parse that last panel Expression, Jennifer. Is that “you’re touched because even after everything Joyce still considers you a friend?” Or “dear God, I have made a previous mistake?”

    • Rose by Any other Name
      Rose by Any other Name
      March 19, 2025 at 12:06 am | #

      Didn’t Jennifer literally five minutes ago say that it’s okay to make out with your friends?
      That might be “I’m going to kiss you because we’re totally platonic friends” face.

    • Ed Callahan
      Ed Callahan
      March 19, 2025 at 12:14 am | #

      I’d say both.

    • Gizen
      Gizen
      March 19, 2025 at 12:15 am | #

      I think it’s the former, just because the larger, slightly more wobbly shine in her pupil implies to me that her eyes are watering the tiniest bit from emotion.

    • BarerMender
      BarerMender
      March 19, 2025 at 12:20 am | #

      I’d say it’s the horrible realization that Joyce is coming onto her.

    • Thag Simmons
      Thag Simmons
      March 19, 2025 at 12:22 am | #

      I think she’s feeling a lot of things but closer to the former than the latter.

    • John Campbell
      John Campbell
      March 19, 2025 at 12:29 am | #

      “A read error has occurred. (A)bort (R)etry (F)ail?”

    • anon
      anon
      March 19, 2025 at 1:17 am | #

      lil’ of column a & b? tho unless it’s a stray line in the last panel, maybe it could be a lip bite to where it’s like “i’m desperate enough for alice to be back in my life i’m willing to give it a shot” lol

    • Envy
      Envy
      March 19, 2025 at 3:11 am | #

      Jennifer’s whole arc since breaking up with Asher has been about how lonely she is. I think her face in the last panel is, “Oh, right, this is what genuine friendship feels like”.

      • DashWallkick
        DashWallkick
        March 19, 2025 at 3:41 am | #

        This is how I elect to read it as well. She has no idea how to be sincere or direct. Jennifer acts according to what would look better for her image in between bursts of self-indulgent destruction and this makes her extremely fake and chaotic.

        Joyce is being sincere and direct and supportive. Jennifer is both appreciative that she’d be so kind and helpful but also *this does not make sense to her* so she’s probably a little confused and weirded out.

    • Lilith Rose
      Lilith Rose
      March 19, 2025 at 4:36 pm | #

      I’m not sure Jennifer knows what her face means either.

  9. Davus
    Davus
    March 19, 2025 at 12:03 am | #

    When Jennifer realizes that Joyce actually believes that they are friends and is actually willing to be friends with her. (Mind blown)

    • Dara
      Dara
      March 19, 2025 at 12:07 am | #

      “Joyce pulls, actually.” So it might be okay both with her current and previous mindsets to be friends with Joyce.

      • True Survivor
        True Survivor
        March 19, 2025 at 12:10 am | #

        Well, she definitely pulls on your heart strings.

  10. NGPZ
    NGPZ
    March 19, 2025 at 12:04 am | #

    *plays “Pink” by The Pillows on hacked muzak*

    • True Survivor
      True Survivor
      March 19, 2025 at 12:09 am | #

      That is a fun song. I see it is from some sort of Japanese animated surrealist comedy? I don’t really watch anime (the only one I ever managed to fully finish was Psycho-Pass). Did you like this show? Would you recommend it?

      • Leorale
        Leorale
        March 19, 2025 at 12:30 am | #

        FLCL is a cult classic and a wild good time. Robots, rock guitars, rad music. It’s also on a pretty significant amount of crack. The ending makes me cry and I don’t know why. Hope you enjoy.

      • Stanistani
        Stanistani
        March 19, 2025 at 12:31 am | #

        FLCL? Oh yeah! One of the greats.

      • Opus the Poet
        Opus the Poet
        March 19, 2025 at 12:35 am | #

        I don’t know about him, but I loved FLCL. Absolutely bonkers video.

      • NGPZ
        NGPZ
        March 19, 2025 at 12:56 am | #

        Hell yeah! Is a surreal story about the perils of adolescence which plays like one long MTV video, it ROCKS! B)

        I’d skip on the sequels tho, at best they’re just okay but not nearly as good as the OG :/

        • True Survivor
          True Survivor
          March 19, 2025 at 10:29 pm | #

          Cool. Thank you all for the recommendation.

  11. mindbleach
    mindbleach
    March 19, 2025 at 12:04 am | #

    “Like, once.”

  12. Sirksome
    Sirksome
    March 19, 2025 at 12:04 am | #

    A better friend than Raidah.

    • Laura
      Laura
      March 19, 2025 at 12:10 am | #

      WAY better!

    • Freemage
      Freemage
      March 19, 2025 at 12:12 am | #

      “At that moment, Jennifer realized the real friends were the friends she had all along.”

      • Laura
        Laura
        March 19, 2025 at 12:13 am | #

        “We were, of course, all ninjas…”

    • Thag Simmons
      Thag Simmons
      March 19, 2025 at 12:22 am | #

      There are venomous reptiles that make better friends than Raidah.

    • anon
      anon
      March 19, 2025 at 1:18 am | #

      i mean, despite her flaws, i think billfer’s …socially savvy(??) enough to realize that raidah is a ‘ladder climber’/convenient acquantaince to have for ‘connections’ or so

    • Aquila
      Aquila
      March 19, 2025 at 3:12 am | #

      I could throw a rock in this place that’s a better friend than Raidah.

      (not “and hit”, to be clear)

      • John Campbell
        John Campbell
        March 19, 2025 at 2:00 pm | #

        You could throw a rock and hit someone who would be a better friend than Raidah. Even after you hit them with a rock unprovoked!

        • Aquila
          Aquila
          March 21, 2025 at 4:11 am | #

          Also true, but I was saying the rock itself would be a better friend.

          Actually, that’s not guaranteed; I’ve known some rocks that are real assholes.
          (That’s right, I’m talking about you, Cliff!)

  13. Steve C
    Steve C
    March 19, 2025 at 12:08 am | #

    “Checkmate, Miss Billingsworth”

  14. Shakes
    Shakes
    March 19, 2025 at 12:09 am | #

    Perhaps the real friends were the friends who were your friends all along.

    • Freemage
      Freemage
      March 19, 2025 at 12:15 am | #

      G’dammit, I swear, when I made that comment in reply to Sirksome, yours wasn’t showing on my screen!

      • Shakes
        Shakes
        March 19, 2025 at 12:17 am | #

        Clearly I stole your comment from the future.

      • Straximus
        Straximus
        March 19, 2025 at 12:19 am | #

        Well, perhaps the real friends were the friends who were her friends all along.

  15. Switchchris
    Switchchris
    March 19, 2025 at 12:12 am | #

    I think that look in the last panel is genuine happiness, or maybe “So this is what somebody who is actually my friend would do”. Unlike her “Friend Group” that kicked her out as soon as she stopped dating the popular guy and she can’t sit at their lunch table anymore.
    She hasn’t had an actual female friend in a LONG time, even longer for one that she didn’t sleep with.
    She REALLY wants a friend right now, I don’t think that befriending her ex-friend is actually the important thing for her, its just that she believes that she would make a good friend since they were friends before and thats her benchmark for “Friend”.
    Hopefully this will soon be the return of Billy as she realizes that she could easily have Friends again if she would just be herself and accept the love from those around her, even if they arnt super popular.

    • John Campbell
      John Campbell
      March 19, 2025 at 12:18 am | #

      The thing is… Joyce is objectively the super popular one here.

      • Sirksome
        Sirksome
        March 19, 2025 at 12:27 am | #

        What does popularity even mean at this point? I feel like every character that values popularity has a very skewed idea of what it is. Raidah’s connected to like 2 people who don’t seem to have any of the value she desires. Meanwhile Joyce is either close friends or tangentially connected to at least two wealthy or influential people. With a friend group nearing a dozen.

  16. Li
    Li
    March 19, 2025 at 12:19 am | #

    Agreeing with a few other people: I think the last panel is “oh… oh, this is what it feels like to have a real friend”.

    I think Jennifer/Billie had forgotten what that could feel like.

  17. audkitten
    audkitten
    March 19, 2025 at 12:20 am | #

    I’m reading that last panel as “oh crap, if I want Alice back I have to spend time with Joyce.” To me that’s a look of panic. Hoping I’m wrong, because I like other people’s interpretation of “yay a real friend,” but I just don’t think Jennifer is that self aware.

    • Thag Simmons
      Thag Simmons
      March 19, 2025 at 12:26 am | #

      I think the second panel is the “Oh crap” but Joyce has disarmed her by the last panel

    • thumb
      thumb
      March 19, 2025 at 7:52 am | #

      That panel reads to me like however she feels about having lunch with Joyce, this is what it feels to receive something good and wholesome you didn’t deserve. I don’t know that she’s looking forward to it, but at least she’s readjusting her estimation of her.

  18. IntangibleMatter
    IntangibleMatter
    March 19, 2025 at 12:20 am | #

    I gotta say, I don’t think I’m ever removing the “DON’T CARE REMOVING PANTS NOW” extension because it makes every strip that much better.

    • Dollie87
      Dollie87
      March 19, 2025 at 7:09 am | #

      Ah yes, THIS is the chaotic energy this comic needs. It was so boring before xD

      • Astariel
        Astariel
        March 19, 2025 at 10:25 am | #

        It would be particularly hilarious in the strip your gravatar is from.

  19. Kyulen
    Kyulen
    March 19, 2025 at 12:23 am | #

    I can’t tell if Jennifer’s face in the last panel means she likes this plan or not. Or maybe she’s just surprised that one person in this friend group she’s been ignoring for a while still considers her a friend? I don’t know.

    • Shakes
      Shakes
      March 19, 2025 at 12:31 am | #

      I think it’s probably a realization that she does have friends after Raidah’s callous remark earlier in https://www.dumbingofage.com/2025/comic/book-15/03-me-and-who-you-say-i-was-yesterday/coupling/

      • Archieve
        Archieve
        March 19, 2025 at 1:00 am | #

        I hope that Radiah takes note and when she brings it up Jennifer can just shrug and go “I did ask you first”

  20. AbacusWizard
    AbacusWizard
    March 19, 2025 at 12:25 am | #

    ohhhhhhhh, well played, Joyce, you are getting very good at this “social” thing

  21. DailyBrad
    DailyBrad
    March 19, 2025 at 12:29 am | #

    Oh, this is way too fucking cute. Also, silly, sure, but not necessarily a terrible course of action. It isn’t like Jennifer/Billie was being any less overbearing in her attempts.

  22. Taffy
    Taffy
    March 19, 2025 at 12:33 am | #

    Unconditional friendship is good and healing.

    • Li
      Li
      March 19, 2025 at 12:17 pm | #

      +1

  23. Arianod
    Arianod
    March 19, 2025 at 12:33 am | #

    Flawless plan!!

  24. RassilonTDavros
    RassilonTDavros
    March 19, 2025 at 12:34 am | #

    In which Jennifer learns the true meaning of friendship.

    (And then maybe gives Joyce a totally-completely-platonic kiss?)

  25. Deanatay
    Deanatay
    March 19, 2025 at 12:45 am | #

    Wait, I’m not just using an acquaintance to bag another acquaintance whom I have unresolved feelings for? I actually have a…? Fr…

    Fr…

    Frie*snap* OW I PULLED SOMETJING

    3 months later, Jennifer can say the word ‘friend’ again without pain

  26. Jane
    Jane
    March 19, 2025 at 12:56 am | #

    Aww

    This is heartwarming, and it’s sad that Jennifer is surprised.

  27. Francoinblanco
    Francoinblanco
    March 19, 2025 at 1:03 am | #

    But I want eat Alice nooow i mean lunch

  28. Zamperla
    Zamperla
    March 19, 2025 at 1:05 am | #

    Ah, Jennifer…

    esp considering the amount of “Well we’re friends SO you provide Service and Our Service is This Superior Friends Group” she’s been going through. Which. honestly I wonder if that was seductive from familiarity.

    she forgot again. theres people who just like her and think fondly of her even if shes kind of a jerk or ditches them.

    • Li
      Li
      March 19, 2025 at 12:19 pm | #

      The VERY first thing she was greeted with in Raidah’s friend group was Char or Chan (I cannot keep them straight) immediately asking her if she’d thought about losing weight. I think that too probably felt familiar from her high school days, even if she wasn’t, back then, as often on the receiving end of it.

  29. StClair
    StClair
    March 19, 2025 at 1:07 am | #

    Sometimes the very thing you’re looking for
    Is the one thing you can’t see

    And now we’re standing face to face
    Isn’t this world a crazy place?
    Just when I thought our chance had passed
    You go and save the best for last

  30. DJTsurugi
    DJTsurugi
    March 19, 2025 at 1:07 am | #

    wait… is this the arc where everyone crushes on Joyce? ~<3

    • anonymsly
      anonymsly
      March 19, 2025 at 6:58 am | #

      She’s pretty crushworthy.

  31. Amós Batista
    Amós Batista
    March 19, 2025 at 1:14 am | #

    Joyce’s a real angel. I would drop Jennifer soon at “but I gotta eat with you like forever??”

    • Joy
      Joy
      March 19, 2025 at 2:43 am | #

      Joyce has a lot of friends :3

  32. Serendipity
    Serendipity
    March 19, 2025 at 1:20 am | #

    Jen, do not catch feels- too late.

  33. Jammy
    Jammy
    March 19, 2025 at 1:24 am | #

    That’s the sweetest sentiment of this comic’s history. So surprising. So lovely. Thanks.

  34. Bryy
    Bryy
    March 19, 2025 at 1:25 am | #

    Jennifer please do not fuck this up in tomorrow’s strip.

    • Juanoku
      Juanoku
      March 19, 2025 at 2:45 am | #

      That has been my first thought after i read these for the past week or 2

    • Morhek
      Morhek
      March 19, 2025 at 3:04 am | #

      Oh, she won’t fuck this up ᶦⁿ ᵗᵒᵐᵒʳʳᵒʷ’ˢ ˢᵗʳᶦᵖ.

      • Deanatay
        Deanatay
        March 19, 2025 at 9:10 am | #

        She’ll wait at least a week before fucking things up.

  35. Retrikaethan
    Retrikaethan
    March 19, 2025 at 1:33 am | #

    dang i really hope jennifer’s takeaway from this is that raidah ain’t actually her friend and not that this plan is gonna take forever if it ever works at all.

  36. Bobin
    Bobin
    March 19, 2025 at 1:37 am | #

    Jennifer when she realizes she has to be friends with somone who isn’t garbage

  37. Tan
    Tan
    March 19, 2025 at 1:48 am | #

    Dumbing of Age Book 15: But It’s Okay, Because We’re Friends

  38. AK
    AK
    March 19, 2025 at 1:57 am | #

    Okay this is honestly adorable.

  39. thakoru
    thakoru
    March 19, 2025 at 2:09 am | #

    “Also, the last time I tried doing that, the person I was trying to convince ended up falling in love with me, which I’m assuming would be awkward.”

  40. Tessea
    Tessea
    March 19, 2025 at 2:33 am | #

    Hooray! Lunch with Jennifer!

  41. Joy
    Joy
    March 19, 2025 at 2:40 am | #

    I’m happy that she’s realizing stuff in that last panel. Like she deserves to be happy. I feel like being friends and hanging out with Joyce will make her happy, and with how she’s been lately she’ll probably distance herself from Raidah like she did with Asher after his mean comment.

    • Joy
      Joy
      March 19, 2025 at 2:41 am | #

      Also Joyce was right about her social expertise hehehehehe

  42. aSnowyEvening
    aSnowyEvening
    March 19, 2025 at 3:11 am | #

    Aww, that’s sweet. That’s actually the little bit of kindness that Jennifer needs right now. Good job, Joyce.

    • aSnowyEvening
      aSnowyEvening
      March 19, 2025 at 3:20 am | #

      Goodbye Fuckface, you were a great companion but I am bored and want to roll the dice again.

      • aSnowyEvening
        aSnowyEvening
        March 19, 2025 at 3:21 am | #

        LOL I hate Malaya but that was perfect. They are staying for the time being.

        • Bruno
          Bruno
          March 19, 2025 at 3:31 am | #

          Gang

  43. DashWallkick
    DashWallkick
    March 19, 2025 at 3:37 am | #

    Jennifer visibly trying not to condescend and dismiss her for being an embarrassing nerd in that last panel.

  44. Thing2
    Thing2
    March 19, 2025 at 3:43 am | #

    Creepy and overbearing.

  45. Tawnee
    Tawnee
    March 19, 2025 at 4:04 am | #

    Oops got here later than usual so I’ll do a quick ctrl + f on the comments.

    Huh, no-one said “bang” yet (or maybe you did but in politer language).

    They’re friends! They get to bang!

  46. Chasey
    Chasey
    March 19, 2025 at 6:47 am | #

    I hope that face is because Jennifer is realizing that Joyce is a way better friend than Raidah, Raidah who has prerequisites for if you’re allowed to be seen with her.

    • anonymsly
      anonymsly
      March 19, 2025 at 7:07 am | #

      And lunchtime with Joyce could also bring Joe into Jennifer’s new/old circle of friends, and he could be very good for Jennifer, since he’s got a different perspective on being a recovering POS than the rest. It could bring Becky in more genuinely, Becky who has always thought Jennifer is kind of awesome and who might be able help hone and focus the alpha-bongo-problem-solver bits. And it could bring back Walky, the first and for a long time only unconditional forever friend of Jennifer’s life, now with added perceptiveness and maturity on his side.

      This could be really genuinely good for Jennifer, if she lets it be.

  47. anonymsly
    anonymsly
    March 19, 2025 at 6:57 am | #

    I love, love, love that Joyce’s plan is basically just ‘show Alice you have real friends by actually having real friends’.

    • Foolissa
      Foolissa
      March 19, 2025 at 7:55 pm | #

      Yes! I’m obsessed by whether Joyce’s last line is as straightforward as she normally is, or if she has gotten subtle enough to realize that Jennifer did not AT ALL think that before but Joyce knows A) it’s true and that B) Jennifer won’t be able to argue with it in this context. Like, is Joyce poking at Jennifer just a little bit with that? I want it to be true.

  48. Florence
    Florence
    March 19, 2025 at 7:03 am | #

    Oh Jennifer, that’s someone actually sincerely caring about you

    Maybe you might get past your brain worms and let the friendship happen instead of playing hierarchy

  49. Mark
    Mark
    March 19, 2025 at 7:25 am | #

    Honestly I can’t decide whether Joyce’s plan or Jennifer’s is the less wildly unlikely to succeed, but I’ll admit that I can think of nothing better.

    • clif
      clif
      March 19, 2025 at 12:11 pm | #

      Better plan. As in more likely to work. Hm. You have the aliens abduct her and reprogram her personality. Or alternatively you kidnap her yourself and wait for Stockholm syndrome to make her fall in love with you.

      Take kidnapping off the table and I think you’re back to Joyce’s plan.

    • John Campbell
      John Campbell
      March 19, 2025 at 2:44 pm | #

      The best thing about Joyce’s plan is, even if it fails, it has solved the root problem of Jennifer not having any friends.

  50. thumb
    thumb
    March 19, 2025 at 7:47 am | #

    I gotta say, the plan is solid. Give it up for Joyce. It’s sane enough to work.

    • clif
      clif
      March 19, 2025 at 12:18 pm | #

      Have you kept records on whether sane or insane plans are more effective for reaching dubious goals?

  51. Liska
    Liska
    March 19, 2025 at 8:02 am | #

    That’s the face where you realize you had forgotten what it was like to *be* a friend, not just *have* a friend.

  52. Koms
    Koms
    March 19, 2025 at 8:39 am | #

    *Borrows the hacked muzak to play ‘You’ve got a friend in me’ and returns it with thanks*

  53. DallyDaydream
    DallyDaydream
    March 19, 2025 at 8:47 am | #

    When Joyce has better social awareness than you

  54. Rabisch
    Rabisch
    March 19, 2025 at 8:48 am | #

    I’m afraid that Joyce is about to discover an unpleasant reality.

    • Jeremiah
      Jeremiah
      March 19, 2025 at 10:05 am | #

      I think Jennifer is about to realize a very pleasant reality.

  55. Amelie Wikström
    Amelie Wikström
    March 19, 2025 at 8:53 am | #

    “What are ‘friends?’ People willing to trade favors such as letting me leverage their clout to influence other people to increase my network of social influence, right? That’s all I remember of friendship since I met Raidah anyway.”

  56. Jeremiah
    Jeremiah
    March 19, 2025 at 10:04 am | #

    Yessss let the power of friendship seep into your very soul.

  57. Astariel
    Astariel
    March 19, 2025 at 10:42 am | #

    D’awww!

  58. Rectilinear Propagation
    Rectilinear Propagation
    March 19, 2025 at 11:06 am | #

    Very grateful for some warm and fuzzies in this trying time.

  59. Yeet
    Yeet
    March 19, 2025 at 11:13 am | #

    basically everyone being better at this than jennifer is very funny

    • BorkBorkBork
      BorkBorkBork
      March 19, 2025 at 12:22 pm | #

      Honestly, it kind of makes sense that the popular person who everyone was tripping over to be known as a friend of and be in the inner circle with, isn’t really familiar with how to *be* a friend.

      • Yeet
        Yeet
        March 19, 2025 at 1:00 pm | #

        yeah but the fact that she thinks of herself as good at socialising and chicanery and friendships is the funny bit
        it’s the hubris

  60. Jdorr
    Jdorr
    March 19, 2025 at 12:24 pm | #

    Jennifer, if you want to seem friendly and normal, spending time with a friend would be a good start

  61. Smooti
    Smooti
    March 19, 2025 at 12:47 pm | #

    This is. Actually an incredibly good plan. Maybe add in adding some more social media posts of the two of them hanging in clearly not alcohol filled spaces and you’ve got the seeds planted.

  62. Wilde
    Wilde
    March 19, 2025 at 1:02 pm | #

    A) I think the face is her being touched that Joyce has such a simple and unshakeable view of their friendship

    B) I really hope Billie doesn’t double down on bullying her because of this, or even better, comes clean to Joyce about what’s really going on

    C) I think Dorothy and Billie have the same problem, that they don’t think anyone wants them as friends unless they are being useful, so this is surprising her

    • Wilde
      Wilde
      March 19, 2025 at 1:03 pm | #

      D) what other avvies can I get?! Just curious

    • wilde
      wilde
      March 19, 2025 at 1:04 pm | #

      Oops didn’t change it

      • wilde
        wilde
        March 19, 2025 at 1:04 pm | #

        I was doing it wrong, listen I had bad sleep. We’ll just see what this one is

        • wilde
          wilde
          March 19, 2025 at 1:05 pm | #

          This feels fair and just after that showing, it’s a garbage roof kinda day

    • Pseudowolf
      Pseudowolf
      March 19, 2025 at 1:29 pm | #

      I think it’s that and that she kinda forgot what it looks like for someone to just be your friend and not just friend-LY because you think you can use that for your own benefit somehow (which is basically Raidah’s entire circle)

  63. Poyo
    Poyo
    March 19, 2025 at 4:26 pm | #

    how is joyce better at understanding how to manipulate people than jennifer. thats hilarious

    • Heavensrun
      Heavensrun
      March 19, 2025 at 9:27 pm | #

      Because Joyce isn’t trying to manipulate anybody. She’s trying to *influence* people. And I daresay she’s succeeding.

  64. Joey245
    Joey245
    March 19, 2025 at 8:19 pm | #

    …wow it’s been a hot minute since I checked this comic. A few years, in fact. Think I remember Joyce being on her cringe atheist arc last time I was here, glad to see that she’s doing much better these days! Spent the day reading a few of the stories I missed, great stuff.

    Favorite stuff I read today was Dina and Becky’s experimenting, Joyce discovering she might be autistic (which just made me love her even more), Jocelyn coming over to visit, Sarah and Tony hitting it off, and pretty much anything involving Dorothy. Keep being awesome Mr. Willis!

    • Joey245
      Joey245
      March 19, 2025 at 8:20 pm | #

      Forgot to mention, I’m tempted to just read EVERYTHING from the Winter arc that I missed…which makes me tempted to reread the entire series just to make sure I haven’t missed anything…

      Dammit, I planned to do stuff with my free time D:

      • Dante
        Dante
        March 19, 2025 at 9:21 pm | #

        Oh! Go ahead! Seriously, I love re-reading DoA, it’s insane how well planned it is and it shows <33 You don't have to binge or anything, though god it's SO EASY to do that

  65. Heavensrun
    Heavensrun
    March 19, 2025 at 9:26 pm | #

    Man, I hope that dawning realization at the end is Billie realizing that Joyce is too good for her.

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