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October 9, 2026

Cuddlin’

by David M Willis on December 12, 2025 at 12:01 am
  • 02 – I'm the Problem, It's Me
└ Tags: becky, dorothy

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  1. QueenofSodor
    QueenofSodor
    December 12, 2025 at 12:01 am | # | Reply Report comment

    dorothy’s desperately trying to avoid revealing her shibari sweatervest

    • Risky
      Risky
      December 12, 2025 at 12:29 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Well now somebody will probably draw that. Totally unnecessary as I already have several possible visuals playing in my head, but also somebody please draw this.

      • Yet_One_More_Idiot
        Yet_One_More_Idiot
        December 12, 2025 at 1:44 am | # | Reply Report comment

        “It’s sweater-vests all the way down…” xD

    • Opus the Poet
      Opus the Poet
      December 12, 2025 at 1:08 am | # | Reply Report comment

      A shibari sweater would basically macrame with carefully placed knots over the naughty bits.

  2. Doctor_Who
    Doctor_Who
    December 12, 2025 at 12:02 am | # | Reply Report comment

    “Take it off, or I’ll rip it off!”

    “I’d like to see you try!”

    And that’s how this story gets a sordid new twist.

    • Ty34er
      Ty34er
      December 12, 2025 at 12:05 am | # | Reply Report comment

      It’s okay, my brain went there too

    • QueenofSodor
      QueenofSodor
      December 12, 2025 at 12:08 am | # | Reply Report comment

      i need becky and dorothy to make out and have angry sex so bad

      • Irreleverent
        Irreleverent
        December 12, 2025 at 1:13 am | # | Reply Report comment

        The whole cast just needs to fuck it out at this point.

        • Ray Radlein
          Ray Radlein
          December 12, 2025 at 3:52 am | # | Reply Report comment

          “That wasn’t Tear Gas the National Guard was firing, it was FUCK GAS!”

          • Taffy
            Taffy
            December 12, 2025 at 3:54 am | # | Reply Report comment

            “What’s a fuckass?”

            • Azu
              Azu
              December 12, 2025 at 4:14 am | # | Reply Report comment

              you would know!

      • Opus the Poet
        Opus the Poet
        December 12, 2025 at 1:16 am | # | Reply Report comment

        What about Dina? She does have a prior claim on Becky. unless you want a Joyce, Becky, Dina, and Dorothy foursome.

        • Clif
          Clif
          December 12, 2025 at 3:05 am | # | Reply Report comment

          No, but I’ve heard worse suggestions.

    • Acher4
      Acher4
      December 12, 2025 at 3:00 am | # | Reply Report comment

      NGL, that would be an awesome (drama-wide) twist.

  3. Sirksome
    Sirksome
    December 12, 2025 at 12:03 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Don’t trust sudden requests to strip.

    • Pocky
      Pocky
      December 12, 2025 at 12:20 am | # | Reply Report comment

      yeah, kind of a step too far. We can only handle so much cheating in one comic.

      • Sharizard
        Sharizard
        December 12, 2025 at 4:24 am | # | Reply Report comment

        I think the Paladins would literally explode.

  4. Astariel
    Astariel
    December 12, 2025 at 12:03 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Hmm, maybe Becky really should have started that apology portfolio.

    Also, it’s cold in here, Becky! Probably because of that gas leak causing the heat not to work.

    • Risky
      Risky
      December 12, 2025 at 12:30 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Campfire might help

      • Slartibeast Button, BIA
        Slartibeast Button, BIA
        December 12, 2025 at 12:32 am | # | Reply Report comment

        Probably against dorm rules…

      • TheCruisiest
        TheCruisiest
        December 12, 2025 at 4:11 am | # | Reply Report comment

        I would advise against the use of fire during a gas leak

  5. jeffepp
    jeffepp
    December 12, 2025 at 12:03 am | # | Reply Report comment

    She isn’t wearing Joyce’s clothing under that coat. Or, any for that matter.

    • brionl
      brionl
      December 12, 2025 at 1:58 am | # | Reply Report comment

      That’s what I was thinking.

  6. Dot
    Dot
    December 12, 2025 at 12:05 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Panel one is clearly Becky still masking and telling Dorothy what she thinks she wants to hear so she can, like, go away (“it’s ok! You don’t need to apologize for anything! Everything’s fine!”). Then Dorothy goes and makes it weird by getting super defensive about the clothes thing, and at that point Becky just can’t help herself. Mx. Willis can you please get rid of the obnoxious ad that completely covered the text box as I was typing this.

    • Lee
      Lee
      December 12, 2025 at 12:24 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Oh has that happened to you too? Re: ad. It’s a Hiveworks issue I suppose but it made the comic unreadable the other day.

    • Risky
      Risky
      December 12, 2025 at 12:35 am | # | Reply Report comment

      I hate the ads that do that. They should get out of the way or at least have a button to shrink them after they explode all over the content, doing no favors to the bottom line because I’m not looking to support any advertisers with ads that aggressively anti-reader.

    • Adam Black
      Adam Black
      December 12, 2025 at 12:50 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Panel 5 is backmasking

      It says On

  7. Sirksome
    Sirksome
    December 12, 2025 at 12:05 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Also Dorothy’s apology did nothing for Becky so I have to ask again what was it for? Just for the sake of it? Because that means it was for Dorothy.

    • Astariel
      Astariel
      December 12, 2025 at 12:07 am | # | Reply Report comment

      It was for Becky. Since Dorothy is not clairvoyant, she didn’t know in advance that it would do nothing for Becky, so she thought it was worth taking a shot that it would help at least a little.

      • Dara
        Dara
        December 12, 2025 at 12:09 am | # | Reply Report comment

        Also it’s her way of reacting to anyone she feels she may’ve wronged whether she meant to or not. (She’s done this a lot, with the strong implication she’s been doing this for a long time. Tho’ notarised is an extra step, I think?)

      • Lumino
        Lumino
        December 12, 2025 at 12:13 am | # | Reply Report comment

        I disagree. The apology at no point considered what Becky needed. It was Dorothy trying to address her own feelings of guilt and shame.

        If she apologized to WALKY and he responded like this, then you’d be correct, but Dorothy hasn’t wronged Becky. She has nothing to apologize to her for.

        • AMagicalDuck
          AMagicalDuck
          December 12, 2025 at 12:31 am | # | Reply Report comment

          Regardless of whether Dorothy wronged Becky or not, she was still harmed by Dorothy’s actions and friends tend to apologise for that regardless of whether they actually are at fault

        • Adam Black
          Adam Black
          December 12, 2025 at 12:41 am | # | Reply Report comment

          Why should she. What Becky needs isn’t Dorothy job. That’s been Joyce and Dina.
          This is why Becky needs to move in with Robin.

        • Clif
          Clif
          December 12, 2025 at 3:10 am | # | Reply Report comment

          Lumino, If she apologized to Walky and got the same response, a demand to remove clothing …

          What were we talking about again?

      • shepsquared
        shepsquared
        December 12, 2025 at 12:25 am | # | Reply Report comment

        Why would Dorothy think Becky would want a written, notarised apology instead of something verbal anyway?

        • AMagicalDuck
          AMagicalDuck
          December 12, 2025 at 12:38 am | # | Reply Report comment

          This is a woman who canonically sends handwritten thank you notes for every gift she receives. She clearly believes that handwritten letters are more sincere and respectful

          • Jon
            Jon
            December 12, 2025 at 1:19 am | # | Reply Report comment

            Yea but. Like. Know your audience.

          • Ray Radlein
            Ray Radlein
            December 12, 2025 at 3:57 am | # | Reply Report comment

            Plus, carefully writing down your thoughtful apology in advance dramatically reduces the odds that you will fuck up in the heat of the moment and say the wrong thing.

            Mind you, learning to speak without fucking up and saying the wrong thing is a kind of important skill for a politician to have, so I’m surprised Dorothy hasn’t worked on it obsessively for years

      • Adam Black
        Adam Black
        December 12, 2025 at 12:34 am | # | Reply Report comment

        Dorothy is Clairvoyant. Either she knew that the letter would have a positive result.
        Or she saw that it would enrage Becky while looking good in Joyce eyes.
        But either way this is on Dorothy.

      • Sirksome
        Sirksome
        December 12, 2025 at 12:44 am | # | Reply Report comment

        I don’t understand this argument. I really want to but this justification confuses me. It doesn’t take clairvoyance. Dorothy knows why Becky is upset and she knows an apology won’t fix what has upset her.

        • Adam Black
          Adam Black
          December 12, 2025 at 1:01 am | # | Reply Report comment

          Astarial took the premise, one objectively incorrect that the apology was for Beck since Dorothy isn’t Clairvoyant.

          But since Dorothy is one of many characters with supernormal powers, prophetic dreams, visions hunches etc she is Clairvoyant. Understanding destroys the mystery. Hoe does Dina teleport into banks?

          The answer is , just because. Shut up, it’s just a comic.

          The real issues become intentions and does Becky know it.

          I didn’t see the text of the letter. You didn’t. That changes everything

          • Allen Alberti
            Allen Alberti
            December 12, 2025 at 5:26 am | # | Reply Report comment

            I am pretty sure, based on the indent that Sirksome was responding to Astarial…

      • Acher4
        Acher4
        December 12, 2025 at 3:00 am | # | Reply Report comment

        Obv

    • StClair
      StClair
      December 12, 2025 at 12:16 am | # | Reply Report comment

      100% for Dorothy.

    • Prince Mech
      Prince Mech
      December 12, 2025 at 12:17 am | # | Reply Report comment

      It was for the sake of a joke.

      This is I think, maybe my biggest frustration with this storyline and it’s taken me a while to figure out what it was, but so many things have been done for the sake of a joke, to give a strip a gag, and it’s been really tonally confusing.

      Dorothy’s apology isn’t about her as a character or her motivations. It’s just what Willis thought would be a funny way to end a strip, and this clothes thing is the same.

      • Thag Simmons
        Thag Simmons
        December 12, 2025 at 12:24 am | # | Reply Report comment

        I feel like both punchlines are pretty in-character?

        Also, feels a little quick on the draw to say it’s just for the sake of a joke when the scene isn’t even over yet.

        • eskimolos
          eskimolos
          December 12, 2025 at 4:22 am | # | Reply Report comment

          I mean, it definitely is for the sake of a joke, it’s just that Willis tries their best to ensure the joke is consistent with where the plot is meant to go and what the character might do that would be funny. But yeah all but a few strips haven’t meant to be humorous in some way – that’s also why we got the Joyce Stealing Dorothy from Walky strip, and why Walky’s coping mechanism has been nuggets, why he was kicked out of bed by Billifer, and why Joyce has been unrepentantly oversharing about having sex with Dorothy. They’re all choices that haven’t sat right with at least part of the fan base, and they’re all choices that the other part of the fan base sees for what they are – attempts at levity to keep a really difficult storyline from getting too dramatic and tense.

          • Allen Alberti
            Allen Alberti
            December 12, 2025 at 5:28 am | # | Reply Report comment

            a gag-a-day strip will gag each day, after all

    • Lee
      Lee
      December 12, 2025 at 12:27 am | # | Reply Report comment

      It was for Dorothy. Dorothy thought it was for Becky but she is attrocious at genuine remorse. Her guilt always seems kind of performative, like she THINKS she should prostrate herself, but never really thinks through that it might not be what the other person needs. It sure as hell isn’t what Becky needs, but frankly she owes Walky — and Joe — an apology more.

      • eskimolos
        eskimolos
        December 12, 2025 at 4:26 am | # | Reply Report comment

        Dorothy does not need to have remorse for Becky, the prioiritisation of Becky has consistently hit as insane for me throughout this plot. Becky was happy with Dina, she staked no real claim on Joyce, Dorothy is not BFFs with Becky and owes her nothing for dating Joyce.

        Yes, Dorothy should try to be better to Walky, and at least *thank* Joe for being so big about the situation, and apologise for not having treated him better when he was literally trying to open the door for her and Joyce. But nobody needs a notarised apology letter, Dorothy is just wracked with guilt over the whole situation, especially for Becky who has already been through so much.

    • Fail Earnhardt
      Fail Earnhardt
      December 12, 2025 at 12:33 am | # | Reply Report comment

      As I said last strip, going through all the paperwork and notary shit is the clue that the apology is for Dorothy’s sake.

  8. Ray
    Ray
    December 12, 2025 at 12:06 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Hey, cold weather dressing is ALL about multiple layers…

    • Slartibeast Button, BIA
      Slartibeast Button, BIA
      December 12, 2025 at 12:30 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Multiple laying is what the clothes are there to prevent…

  9. Getsu
    Getsu
    December 12, 2025 at 12:06 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Proud of Becky to not even glance at or acknowledge the letter like it wss going to help how bad the situation is.

    • StClair
      StClair
      December 12, 2025 at 12:17 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Folding/crumpling it up and tossing it away like the worthless thing it is.

      • Adam Black
        Adam Black
        December 12, 2025 at 1:06 am | # | Reply Report comment

        That’s just because she’s a slob. She throws everything on the floor.

  10. Nono
    Nono
    December 12, 2025 at 12:08 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Back to calling her Dotty, huh.

    • Dara
      Dara
      December 12, 2025 at 12:09 am | # | Reply Report comment

      But now she means it.

  11. Cassie
    Cassie
    December 12, 2025 at 12:10 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Dorothy what was the point of trying to lie? Just be honest about this shit. I think Becky would respect that even if she doesn’t like it.

    • AK
      AK
      December 12, 2025 at 3:08 am | # | Reply Report comment

      I cringe for this Dorothy behavior because I’ve done this Dorothy behavior. It’s avoidance of a scary high tension space she doesn’t know how to navigate. Unfortunately it’s also tremendously disrespectful.

  12. Li
    Li
    December 12, 2025 at 12:11 am | # | Reply Report comment

    She is a mess and I love her.

    Nothing more substantive to say than that tonight, but it seemed worth saying anyway!

    • John Campbell
      John Campbell
      December 12, 2025 at 1:24 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Not sure which one you’re talking about, but I guess it’s pretty applicable either way.

      • Li
        Li
        December 12, 2025 at 1:32 am | # | Reply Report comment

        I meant Dorothy in this instance but you know what, Becky too, for sure.

  13. RassilonTDavros
    RassilonTDavros
    December 12, 2025 at 12:11 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Unfortunately Becky can’t be part of the polycule, she can only name two of the Beatles

    • RassilonTDavros
      RassilonTDavros
      December 12, 2025 at 12:12 am | # | Reply Report comment

      (Also, Mega Man 12? Holy shit what?)

      • Risky
        Risky
        December 12, 2025 at 12:42 am | # | Reply Report comment

        (Mega man 11 complex part 2) (Ringo Paul Jon and Ron)

    • Taffy
      Taffy
      December 12, 2025 at 3:47 am | # | Reply Report comment

      No wonder Dorothy is so on edge.

  14. IntangibleMatter
    IntangibleMatter
    December 12, 2025 at 12:15 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Alternate version of the last panel with that one meme template

  15. Bwsab
    Bwsab
    December 12, 2025 at 12:17 am | # | Reply Report comment

    And that’s how, ironically, Becky got to see her crush’s girlfriend naked.

  16. Pocky
    Pocky
    December 12, 2025 at 12:22 am | # | Reply Report comment

    kissin’, and cuddlin’, and wearin’ each other’s clothes.

    Actually in that order, I believe.

  17. Thing 2
    Thing 2
    December 12, 2025 at 12:24 am | # | Reply Report comment

    October 2026? Walky still not talking to Joyce? Oh wait, this is like, just tomorrow for them.

    • John Campbell
      John Campbell
      December 12, 2025 at 1:29 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Looks like for my birthday next year I’m getting some enemies-who-are-married-in-the-other-universe sexual tension.

  18. Sirksome
    Sirksome
    December 12, 2025 at 12:26 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Gotta say I approve. Becky was told she couldn’t have what she wanted and has decided to just take it! Very leadership of her! A+! No notes! Dorothy could learn from her example.

  19. Adam Black
    Adam Black
    December 12, 2025 at 12:29 am | # | Reply Report comment

    ..Wearing next to Nothing

  20. Qube
    Qube
    December 12, 2025 at 12:30 am | # | Reply Report comment

    given becky’s usual level of self-entitlement re: joyce, it’s a wonder she can’t determine if dorothy has her clothes on by smell alone

  21. Fail Earnhardt
    Fail Earnhardt
    December 12, 2025 at 12:41 am | # | Reply Report comment

    I think what a lot of folks aren’t getting about this exchange is that the question isn’t “Is Dorothy’s apology sincere?” We know it is because we just saw her agonize over her actions in class. The real question right now is “Does Dorothy’s apology consider the needs of the harmed person, or is it primarily for exonerating herself?” *That’s* why it feels so hollow. You can see her teeing up to make this exact same mistake with Walky in the last storyline before Joyce HAHAHAHA’d her way outta there.

    • Adam Black
      Adam Black
      December 12, 2025 at 12:46 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Why is that the question?

      The harmed person is Amber
      Then Dina, Walky, and Joe.

      • Fail Earnhardt
        Fail Earnhardt
        December 12, 2025 at 12:56 am | # | Reply Report comment

        As others have said, (S/O Throwatron who swayed me on this last strip) Dorothy’s smart enough to understand she didn’t technically do anything wrong to Becky, but because of Becky’s issues she’s become collateral damage in the wake of Dorothy and Joyce’s actions. Saying “this is Becky’s problem to solve within herself” may be true, but it can’t stop the voice in Dorothy’s head screaming at her to “fix this!” So now we’re stuck at the impasse of “Dorothy can’t leave Becky alone out of fear she’ll hurt herself” and “Dorothy’s part in all of this means she *can’t* solve it and she should probably give Becky some space.”

        • Adam Black
          Adam Black
          December 12, 2025 at 3:39 am | # | Reply Report comment

          Dorothy can’t leave Becky alone. Because this is where she literally lives and her clothes are here. It’s only an impasse because it’s written that way.

          It’s not true that the comic isn’t complete without a homeless lesbian

          • Taffy
            Taffy
            December 12, 2025 at 3:41 am | # | Reply Report comment

            Are you a mineral?

  22. Kyulen
    Kyulen
    December 12, 2025 at 12:42 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Considering how little time it’s been in-comic since Becky found out about Doyce, I doubt Becky is actually fine with this. But I still think Dorothy should be trying to apologize to Walky and Joe more than Becky at this point.

  23. Risky
    Risky
    December 12, 2025 at 12:56 am | # | Reply Report comment

    I think she had three goals: get some clothes so she doesn’t have to keep wearing Joyce’s since those were the only clean ones available, check in on Becky, and take a punch if necessary. It’s her fault more or less that Joyce had an epiphany without telling her one lesbian friend first.

  24. Juanoku
    Juanoku
    December 12, 2025 at 1:03 am | # | Reply Report comment

    If she’s wearing her sweater vest then we’ve reached critical mass

  25. Adam Black
    Adam Black
    December 12, 2025 at 1:09 am | # | Reply Report comment

    It’s about time Dorothy stood up to Becky. I hope a physical fight breaks out.
    For the comments section.

    You guys are getting dull.

  26. Amós Batista
    Amós Batista
    December 12, 2025 at 1:10 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Becky is being like:
    “This message will auto-destroy in 5 seconds”

    • Needfuldoer
      Needfuldoer
      December 12, 2025 at 4:42 am | # | Reply Report comment

      Don’t worry, she’s always on duty!

  27. Francoinblanco
    Francoinblanco
    December 12, 2025 at 1:38 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Yea now reverse genders and see if that sound funny. Wait a minute

  28. Nothri
    Nothri
    December 12, 2025 at 2:39 am | # | Reply Report comment

    ::laugh track, sitcom jingle::

  29. Taffy
    Taffy
    December 12, 2025 at 3:03 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Damn, it took her three in-story hours to respond, and Becky just stood there patiently. It’s canon.

  30. Acher4
    Acher4
    December 12, 2025 at 3:03 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Oh no…. Becky radiates bad juju on that first panel. :/

    • Taffy
      Taffy
      December 12, 2025 at 3:08 am | # | Reply Report comment

      [Citation needed]

  31. thumb
    thumb
    December 12, 2025 at 3:25 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Honestly, Dotty picking one specific denial that can be very easily disproven tells me she just may have a future in politics after all.

  32. Adam Black
    Adam Black
    December 12, 2025 at 3:43 am | # | Reply Report comment

    I think Dorothy is actually Naked because her clothes are in here.

    I can’t wait till tomorrow when Becky strips off her coat while Dina or Joyce walk in
    . because half the comments will be accusing Becky of SA. A third slut shaming Dorothy for breaking Dinas heart.

  33. darkoneko
    darkoneko
    December 12, 2025 at 3:46 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Yes. And cuddle with Becky too now.

  34. JoeCovenant
    JoeCovenant
    December 12, 2025 at 3:50 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Patreon ‘teaser’ frame is heartbreaking…..

  35. Ray Radlein
    Ray Radlein
    December 12, 2025 at 3:50 am | # | Reply Report comment

    “Okay, then, take off your pants”

  36. Laura
    Laura
    December 12, 2025 at 3:59 am | # | Reply Report comment

    NGPZ, I know you’re taking a hard-earned break right now to focus on your health.
    If you do peruse the comments, though, I saw this New Yorker article today on folks trying to leave the USA, and thought of you:

    https://archive.is/JOmN3

    Take good care of YOU.

  37. GUIGUI
    GUIGUI
    December 12, 2025 at 4:26 am | # | Reply Report comment

    Could have had better chance of working if Becky had given herself a Joyce-y haircut instead.

  38. Odo
    Odo
    December 12, 2025 at 5:45 am | # | Reply Report comment

    https://www.dumbingofage.com/2022/comic/book-12/05-this-was-halloween/childhoodhome/

    Found this and I think it is a good example of how Becky feels about Joyce.

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